Another great CollarMe email
The great thing about creating a 2nd CollarMe account, is I get twice the Van Dammage.
From my CM journal:
It is so sad that cowards can be so cruel when they don't have to speak face-to-face. This message hurt my feelings, and yes, Dommes have feelings! Also, the guy clearly doesn't know how to read because 1. He tells me to get a job when I already have a career that I don't ever plan to quit and 2. This guy (who, let me guess, probably hasn't found a Domme stupid enough to take him on) is talking to ME about real BDSM relationships when I have a collared submissive. He is Ryu23 here on CM and his profile makes it very clear that I have been a loving Domme to him.
Anyway, needless to say I have blocked him, but I always like sharing hateful, funny or crazy emails so other poor Dommes know to stay away from these guys:
CanPleaseU2 on 11/5/09 at 2:19 AM:
GO AN LEARN THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF A BDSM RELATIONSHIP, AS FAR AS YOU GETTING MONEY FROM SUBMISSIVES IS CONCERNED. FUCK OFF. GO AND GET A JOB LIKE EVERYONE ELSE. PEOPLE LIKE YOU SHOULDN'T BE TAKING UP AIR ON THIS PLANET.
MissInara on 11/5/09 at 9:40 AM:
Oh please. I have a collared submissive and I don't ask any money of him. There are many people who want to play with me, but I don't have time for. In the future they may have the option to pay for my time. I have played with lots of men in the lifestyle and they all had great things to say about the pro dommes they have visited. Even if I still had time to consider more playmates, I would definitely hate woman-hating men like you who angrily and vulgarily try to force their personal opinions on other people. If someone wants to pay me for a session who would never get a chance to otherwise, then that is his choice and my choice. Go take your angry, selfish insecurity elsewhere.
Also, if you bothered to read my profile you would have seen that I have been lifestyle for two years and also that I have a career in something else. If you had met me in real life at a play party, would you really have the balls to come up and say something so hateful and rude? Guess what? I am a real person with real feelings. I understand you may be angry at people who charge for something you believe should be personal, but do you understand that those are just your personal feelings towards it? I have had a sub for a year and I love him dearly and treat him well. The pro sessions would just be on the side when I have some extra time to make extra money to help pay for how expensive it is to be a Domme (one latex outfit costs about $400-800). I don't think submissive think about how expensive and time-consuming it is to be a Domme. Maybe if you did, you would at least think twice before hiding behind the anonymity of the Internet to yell hateful and insulting words to a woman. I hope you realize you hurt the feelings of an actual person, not some robot or fake findom. The fact that you think I shouldn't be taking up air on this planet tells me you don't think I should even be alive JUST because of my views toward whether BDSM sessions should be charged or not. That's pretty extreme. I hope that whatever has raised so much hate in you can be dissipated. I do not think you will ever be able to be a happy person, much less a submissive until you can learn to simply let people "be." This is already a lifestyle that is judged harshly by the rest of the world. Picking it apart and going after sub-niches of the community because you think what they are doing is wrong... Well, that's a little hypocritical.
From my CM journal:
It is so sad that cowards can be so cruel when they don't have to speak face-to-face. This message hurt my feelings, and yes, Dommes have feelings! Also, the guy clearly doesn't know how to read because 1. He tells me to get a job when I already have a career that I don't ever plan to quit and 2. This guy (who, let me guess, probably hasn't found a Domme stupid enough to take him on) is talking to ME about real BDSM relationships when I have a collared submissive. He is Ryu23 here on CM and his profile makes it very clear that I have been a loving Domme to him.
Anyway, needless to say I have blocked him, but I always like sharing hateful, funny or crazy emails so other poor Dommes know to stay away from these guys:
CanPleaseU2 on 11/5/09 at 2:19 AM:
GO AN LEARN THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF A BDSM RELATIONSHIP, AS FAR AS YOU GETTING MONEY FROM SUBMISSIVES IS CONCERNED. FUCK OFF. GO AND GET A JOB LIKE EVERYONE ELSE. PEOPLE LIKE YOU SHOULDN'T BE TAKING UP AIR ON THIS PLANET.
MissInara on 11/5/09 at 9:40 AM:
Oh please. I have a collared submissive and I don't ask any money of him. There are many people who want to play with me, but I don't have time for. In the future they may have the option to pay for my time. I have played with lots of men in the lifestyle and they all had great things to say about the pro dommes they have visited. Even if I still had time to consider more playmates, I would definitely hate woman-hating men like you who angrily and vulgarily try to force their personal opinions on other people. If someone wants to pay me for a session who would never get a chance to otherwise, then that is his choice and my choice. Go take your angry, selfish insecurity elsewhere.
Also, if you bothered to read my profile you would have seen that I have been lifestyle for two years and also that I have a career in something else. If you had met me in real life at a play party, would you really have the balls to come up and say something so hateful and rude? Guess what? I am a real person with real feelings. I understand you may be angry at people who charge for something you believe should be personal, but do you understand that those are just your personal feelings towards it? I have had a sub for a year and I love him dearly and treat him well. The pro sessions would just be on the side when I have some extra time to make extra money to help pay for how expensive it is to be a Domme (one latex outfit costs about $400-800). I don't think submissive think about how expensive and time-consuming it is to be a Domme. Maybe if you did, you would at least think twice before hiding behind the anonymity of the Internet to yell hateful and insulting words to a woman. I hope you realize you hurt the feelings of an actual person, not some robot or fake findom. The fact that you think I shouldn't be taking up air on this planet tells me you don't think I should even be alive JUST because of my views toward whether BDSM sessions should be charged or not. That's pretty extreme. I hope that whatever has raised so much hate in you can be dissipated. I do not think you will ever be able to be a happy person, much less a submissive until you can learn to simply let people "be." This is already a lifestyle that is judged harshly by the rest of the world. Picking it apart and going after sub-niches of the community because you think what they are doing is wrong... Well, that's a little hypocritical.