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is any relationship uncomplicated? is any relationship drama free? does everyone argue about stupid things? are all men completely insensitive and clueless as to what makes women women? what makes a good relationship...what makes them last...and when do you know it's time for yours to be over?
i thought they would last forever. i always felt so bad for breaking his heart and i was always jealous that since i did so, i missed out on a wonderful person and a potentially wonderful relationship. but i was glad, because then he was able to find her...and whenever i saw them together i knew that this was a lucky relationship and that they were both amazing people and deserved each other. and now they are no more...because of too much arguing and whatever i else that isn't my business. they were together for such a long time, i can't even imagine being in a relationship for that long. i'm actually quite a bit upset that they broke up (even if sometimes i wished it was me).
what is a relationship supposed to be like on an everyday basis? what happens in relationships when you've been together for years? what do they become? what should they become? how do you know if this is the one worth fighting for...should you even have to fight for a good relationship? and if the one you're in isn't the one that will end up working out...how do you find the person that will work with you and you with them? are there soulmates? and if there are how do you find that person?
i wish there was someone...near...that would come and rescue me from relationship hell.
i know i talk a lot and ask a lot about love and relationships. but my biggest goal for myself and my life is to get married and have a family. mostly because i don't have the kind of family i wish i could have. the kind that is close and loving..and not all about making everyone feel like shit. i love my mom and what she has done for me...but i want my kids to have a father. i want an example for them of what love can be between a husband and wife...not the kind of relationship that will probably end in divorce.
i thought they would last forever. i always felt so bad for breaking his heart and i was always jealous that since i did so, i missed out on a wonderful person and a potentially wonderful relationship. but i was glad, because then he was able to find her...and whenever i saw them together i knew that this was a lucky relationship and that they were both amazing people and deserved each other. and now they are no more...because of too much arguing and whatever i else that isn't my business. they were together for such a long time, i can't even imagine being in a relationship for that long. i'm actually quite a bit upset that they broke up (even if sometimes i wished it was me).
what is a relationship supposed to be like on an everyday basis? what happens in relationships when you've been together for years? what do they become? what should they become? how do you know if this is the one worth fighting for...should you even have to fight for a good relationship? and if the one you're in isn't the one that will end up working out...how do you find the person that will work with you and you with them? are there soulmates? and if there are how do you find that person?
i wish there was someone...near...that would come and rescue me from relationship hell.
i know i talk a lot and ask a lot about love and relationships. but my biggest goal for myself and my life is to get married and have a family. mostly because i don't have the kind of family i wish i could have. the kind that is close and loving..and not all about making everyone feel like shit. i love my mom and what she has done for me...but i want my kids to have a father. i want an example for them of what love can be between a husband and wife...not the kind of relationship that will probably end in divorce.