Looking at my friends and their lives....
Went down to Wallan last weekend and stayed with a friend from school. It was good to catch up after few months of not seeing each other. Her fiance is someone we knew from school, although few years ahead. She's a mother of 2 boys with another on the way in few days time! Whoa.......
I think she and her fiance's somewhat soft on discipline. So yeah, they're somewhat spoiled. Perhaps that is not surprising considering how she was brought up.
We went to visit a friend of her, an acquaintance of mine, and she's living with her boyfriend, and is a mother of a daughter and a son. The son, I have not met until that day. Cute baby.
Her daughter's nearly 4 and still relies on dummy and diaper at times. I have a gut feeling for a long time that she is developmentally delayed due to her mother smoking pot throughout her pregnancy.
But I guess it'll have to be the school to confirm it.
Again, this mother's soft on discipline and the father somewhat, too.
So... that caused me to think and look at them and what I want
and
One thing's for sure I do NOT want kids in my 20's, perhaps not at all. However, if I do have a child then I'll be firm and ensure they have the best that I could give.
Too many people are raising a generation of brats who won't listen to the word "NO".
As for marriage, I would like that to eventuate but it's hard as heck to find a Mr. Right who's a good, responsible fella. And he must be willing to learn sign language, if he's a hearie.
I think she and her fiance's somewhat soft on discipline. So yeah, they're somewhat spoiled. Perhaps that is not surprising considering how she was brought up.
We went to visit a friend of her, an acquaintance of mine, and she's living with her boyfriend, and is a mother of a daughter and a son. The son, I have not met until that day. Cute baby.
Her daughter's nearly 4 and still relies on dummy and diaper at times. I have a gut feeling for a long time that she is developmentally delayed due to her mother smoking pot throughout her pregnancy.
But I guess it'll have to be the school to confirm it.
Again, this mother's soft on discipline and the father somewhat, too.
So... that caused me to think and look at them and what I want
and
One thing's for sure I do NOT want kids in my 20's, perhaps not at all. However, if I do have a child then I'll be firm and ensure they have the best that I could give.
Too many people are raising a generation of brats who won't listen to the word "NO".
As for marriage, I would like that to eventuate but it's hard as heck to find a Mr. Right who's a good, responsible fella. And he must be willing to learn sign language, if he's a hearie.