Jun 15, 2005 21:28
i'm going to try to make this as mature as possible. but fuck it, it's my journal. at this point, i know who i can count on. i don't care who hates me.
TO THOSE WHO THINK IT'S OK TO CHEAT ON THEIR SIGNIFICANT OTHER:
it's not. we have feelings. no matter how vulnerable, sad, mad, frustrated you are, we are humans too. we all feel these emotions. it is inappropriate to be so selfish as to satisfy yourself by betraying someone you "love." i guess some of us have different definitions of what love is. to me, it does not include being with other girls. ever. no excuses. maybe i'm too hopeful. but i thought we had something. i know we did, and it's a shame it had to be thrown away on account of your lack of self control.
TO THOSE THAT THINK IT'S OK TO "HOOK UP" WITH SOMEONE WHEN THEY ARE CURRENTLY IN A RELATIONSHIP:
guess what? it's not. maybe you should think about how miserable it would make you feel if you were put in their situation. maybe you should realize that you are not the center of the universe. you have no right to hurt other people. i can honestly say that i would NEVER DREAM of becoming involved with a guy that had a girlfriend. it is wrong. not to mention trashy, inconsiderate and pathetic. you know what gets me the most? the fact that i really thought you seemed cool, but now i'll never really get to know if we could ever be friends. because i am not friends with girls that betray other girls. it's not ok. ever.
so i'm sure everyone can tell how my day has gone. and my friends leave for australia tomorrow, so i will probably be alone until i go to vampy.
ain't life grand?