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Hi again everyone=)
Without blogging much I have so many things to get off my chest! So here I am. Today was a particularly shitty workday.
I kind of want to understand those kids who are 20 years old and have babies at these young ages. Should I just mind my own business and not think about this kind of stuff? I mean I don't get it? Don't they want to go to school or college and become somebody better in society? I was reading a featured blog on xanga about a girl who is having her 4th baby and she's only 20! And then I browsed through the comments and all kinds of young girls were saying they have three kids by the age of 21! Are they doing any good by producing so many offsprings into the world? For some reason I was raised with the notion that having kids at a young age is "wrong" so I just can't seem to understand what the real goal is for those young mothers who conceive at age 15 with a fatherless baby. Where do they get the funds from for raising all their babies? Well I know it comes from tax money but omg seriously.
So last night I got a hair cut! I chopped off my bangs and it looks exactly like Chiaki Kuriyama's hair. Anyway at the hair salon, there was a young girl getting her bangs cut off too. She must have looked around 16 or 17 years old and she was carrying her son around. The son was like 2 years old and I'm like what. The kid was out of control, he screamed to the point that I was going deaf. Look at her the way she was acting, she was loud, obnoxious, immature and plain ignorant yet she thinks she can raise the kid "correctly."
I think my main concern is how the kid is going to come out. It's hard to survive nowadays with little money. There's another situation where an old classmate of mine, when I started talking to her again, we were 21 or 22 years old I think. By this time, she was married and had a child and I was so shocked because she was an A+ nerd school girl perfectionist in high school!! But then, it was ok because she had just graduated from an Ivy league university with a bio degree and married a prestigious military man. See, that doesn't sound as bad as having kids at a young age with no accomplishments or decent cash inflow to help you raise the family, right?
What have I learned after thinking about all this? That I shouldn't judge people and I am sorry for judging all those young mothers. I hate being judged myself so I will be more considerate of others xDxD.
Without blogging much I have so many things to get off my chest! So here I am. Today was a particularly shitty workday.
I kind of want to understand those kids who are 20 years old and have babies at these young ages. Should I just mind my own business and not think about this kind of stuff? I mean I don't get it? Don't they want to go to school or college and become somebody better in society? I was reading a featured blog on xanga about a girl who is having her 4th baby and she's only 20! And then I browsed through the comments and all kinds of young girls were saying they have three kids by the age of 21! Are they doing any good by producing so many offsprings into the world? For some reason I was raised with the notion that having kids at a young age is "wrong" so I just can't seem to understand what the real goal is for those young mothers who conceive at age 15 with a fatherless baby. Where do they get the funds from for raising all their babies? Well I know it comes from tax money but omg seriously.
So last night I got a hair cut! I chopped off my bangs and it looks exactly like Chiaki Kuriyama's hair. Anyway at the hair salon, there was a young girl getting her bangs cut off too. She must have looked around 16 or 17 years old and she was carrying her son around. The son was like 2 years old and I'm like what. The kid was out of control, he screamed to the point that I was going deaf. Look at her the way she was acting, she was loud, obnoxious, immature and plain ignorant yet she thinks she can raise the kid "correctly."
I think my main concern is how the kid is going to come out. It's hard to survive nowadays with little money. There's another situation where an old classmate of mine, when I started talking to her again, we were 21 or 22 years old I think. By this time, she was married and had a child and I was so shocked because she was an A+ nerd school girl perfectionist in high school!! But then, it was ok because she had just graduated from an Ivy league university with a bio degree and married a prestigious military man. See, that doesn't sound as bad as having kids at a young age with no accomplishments or decent cash inflow to help you raise the family, right?
What have I learned after thinking about all this? That I shouldn't judge people and I am sorry for judging all those young mothers. I hate being judged myself so I will be more considerate of others xDxD.