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[mirfainlasui]

I haven't really addressed this issue since the summer, but I'm going to do it now. I'm also going to disable comments because I feel like this is the sort of topic that could cause arguments and grief, and that's not what the point of all this is.

comments enabled because if you do have anything to say maybe you could say it here and not bitch/

Comments

[miyo_chan]

Thing is I really want to say things but I don't want to look like I'm butting in here with anyones personal shit, I don't know whats going on with any of you guys any more but whatever... I'll say my two cents and deal with the repercussions:

I feel that, in the past, you have been spineless. From things you have said to me anyway. You were always a scared girl trying to keep everyone from hating her, you didn't like the confrontation and you couldn't bear the thought of losing friends. You can correct me if I'm wrong, but it was that perception that always made me worry about you. Changing the things about yourself that you don't like is hard and lord I respect you for that, moving away from being bitchy and snipey and admitting you have been that way is so honest and such a big thing I don't see how anyone could knock you for it.

I can't agree with Beccy (sorry hun) saying 'don't ask people to do stuff you haven't honoured in the past.' the past is irrelevant now, you are moving away from that person, and you're not telling people 'dont bitch' you're saying 'don't bitch about Nat around me cos, yeah, I'll probably get upset now' thats being pretty honest. trashing someone behind their back is horrible, I do it all the time and I am GUILTY of that, whats so bad about trying to do the right thing? If people don't get this then I think they are missing the point.

Talking about missing the point I hope I made sense and didn't offend.

[brokencitysky]

I wanna just agree with Lauren. Firstly you have grown up amazing amounts since i've met you, AMAAAZING AMOUNTS. You've started stepping away from the spineless and scared girl, which in all honesty most people are, I have been without a doubt, because like you I was way too afraid of people not liking me.

[poorcopies]

Hun, I am not offended, hell, if I had my way people would say how the feel all the time and then we wouldn't even be having this conversation!

But I don't agree with being hyprocritical and asking people to censor their opinions if they wouldn't do the same when roles are reversed.