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[mirfainlasui]

I haven't really addressed this issue since the summer, but I'm going to do it now. I'm also going to disable comments because I feel like this is the sort of topic that could cause arguments and grief, and that's not what the point of all this is.

comments enabled because if you do have anything to say maybe you could say it here and not bitch/

Comments

[brokencitysky]

Firstly I wanna back up everything Rachel has just said Nat related or not.

Secondly (and I'm sure if Nat reads this she'd understand, maybe even agree) the only real problem or worry I had when I heard you were friends with Nat again was a fear of you getting hurt. I'm not implying she would directly hurt you, but what if you fell out and hurt each other? I'm not close with Nat and not for any real reason, i'm just not, which means if something did happen i'd see you hurt, not her. I'm sure Nat understands that.

No one has the right to say who you can be friends with, and more so I (upsettingly enough more than once) understand what it is to have a friendship that goes wrong, really wrong, and how it feels to still want that person as a friend. All I will say is somethings can't be fixed and you always have to be prepared for that, that's something that runs through all of life though right?

If she's helped you more than anyone then who am I, or anyone else for that matter, to stand here and tell you not to be friends with her? You can't control your feelings so tough shit really.

Sure people will/might get upset about it and i'm sure some of them have real reason too, which in honesty you may have to bow down too, you should be prepared for the fact people are gonna call you out on things and be prepared to admit you were wrong.

[mirfainlasui]

Honestly, i know people arent going to like it or whatever but this post was about admitting i was wrong/have changed my opinions from before, and just saying im done with bitching or at least want to try my hardest to stop bitching about people, especially, like I said, people that I do in fact like.

Xoxo

[brokencitysky]

I think there is a tendency in society to feel you have to bitch about people or you're an odd one out?

It's harder to learn not to bitch in this day and age i think

CHIN UP CHUCK :D