Oh yeah I went and saw a band tonight.
http://www.nongrataband.com/They are very good.. how do I know this? Because the lead singer was my ex fiance from a few years ago. I was once again suckered into the whole ordeal tonight. Not that I mind.. he's an amazing guitar player, the best I have ever heard.. yes.. ever. However, the minor drama that occured due to my appearance actually was not caused by him. Weird situation but in the end I was the adult and shit was handled. It took all of my self control but I maintained it.
Lesson for everyone........No matter what you do you cannot control how others judge you or the consequences of their judgements.