what's to report...
well. number one. I have another ex from hell.
I recently asked for my stuff back from my ex. A few dvd shows that are hard to find. I like them. I want them back. I ask for him to drop them off where we both work. i ask, via msn, since i don't want to talk to him on the phone. I don't want him trying to weasel his way back into my life, nor hear it's excuses for being a dick.
" oh i'll drop them off to you at your house."
" no, just drop it off at work, i'll get it then"
" no seriously, i'll just come up to see you and drop the stuff off. We can talk"
Thinking * i dont' want to talk. i just want my stuff back. and if i can avoid seeing you, that would be optimal*
" no i just want you to bring it to work. That's what i asked."
he continued to ask me to call him that night. i told him i didn't want to. well first, that i didn't have the time. Then, i told him i didn't want to. Now that we weren't together, i explained, he didn't have the right to demand of my time. if i didn't want to call him, i didn't have to.
He got mad. Told me i was being childish. Continued to insult me in different ways.
+++
Yesterday i had work, and unfortunately so did he. But i only had to be there an hour into his shift, then got to leave. I didn't want to see him. I didn't want him to make some kind of scene- like his mother did. I don't like my dirty laundry to be aired all over my work place.
He also came in early on the last shift, ( read past entries)
I didn't want that again. I asked my boss if i could leave early, before he got there. And, the store was completely dead, so we could save on hours anyway. I went home, content that i didn't have to have anymore undo stress from him. I figured he'd learned. He would just leave my stuff there, that would be there end of it.
No such luck. Instead he text'd me with this :
very mature with the skipping out on work early to not seem me;
you're not getting your stuff back without an attempt at resolving this, which
is a lot more mature than how you're acting. You will call me at 9:30 pm or i start
snapping discs.
+++
the funny part is a read this at 12 am, after watching a movie and having a wonderful, stress free night. Obviously i didn't call him.
I don't think he gets that i don't want to talk to him anymore. He is a nasty piece of work. He is mean, and childish, and doesn't adhere to the space and boundaries i have ever set.
Still. Eek. Crazy ex's. My mom told me recently that she was glad that i had split up with him. She found him controlling, and manipulative, and beleived it wouldn't be long until he would hit me. Weird vibe about it or something.
Anyway, the dvds, if i don't get them back- are replaceable.
And he will realize, that he too is.
Number Two.
My father is trying to get in touch with me again. I don't think i posted much on the last time, but he's used facebook to find me. After 11 years, and no child support. I willingly stopping seeing him because i did not enjoy my visits with him anymore, when i was young. I told him if he drank around me, being an alcoholic, that i couldn't see him. So i never saw him again. Time went by.
This message said. Hi Sarah.
Long time no talk,How are you doing, more important how is life treating you, Lots to talk about.
If you want to talk lets start by email.
I still love and miss you.
Tony or Dad?
The thing is. the last time i responded to him. He didn't, or lack-lusterly. I asked what happened to him since those years when i saw him. Why he proceeded to stay silent for so long. He said nothing. Didn't even acknowledge what had happened between us. It got frustrating and difficult. Then there was more silence. I stopped messaging. It was painful.
Now he's trying it again.
Bah. Can't the people in my life who i end things with, just stay out??
Well that's it for now.
I recently asked for my stuff back from my ex. A few dvd shows that are hard to find. I like them. I want them back. I ask for him to drop them off where we both work. i ask, via msn, since i don't want to talk to him on the phone. I don't want him trying to weasel his way back into my life, nor hear it's excuses for being a dick.
" oh i'll drop them off to you at your house."
" no, just drop it off at work, i'll get it then"
" no seriously, i'll just come up to see you and drop the stuff off. We can talk"
Thinking * i dont' want to talk. i just want my stuff back. and if i can avoid seeing you, that would be optimal*
" no i just want you to bring it to work. That's what i asked."
he continued to ask me to call him that night. i told him i didn't want to. well first, that i didn't have the time. Then, i told him i didn't want to. Now that we weren't together, i explained, he didn't have the right to demand of my time. if i didn't want to call him, i didn't have to.
He got mad. Told me i was being childish. Continued to insult me in different ways.
+++
Yesterday i had work, and unfortunately so did he. But i only had to be there an hour into his shift, then got to leave. I didn't want to see him. I didn't want him to make some kind of scene- like his mother did. I don't like my dirty laundry to be aired all over my work place.
He also came in early on the last shift, ( read past entries)
I didn't want that again. I asked my boss if i could leave early, before he got there. And, the store was completely dead, so we could save on hours anyway. I went home, content that i didn't have to have anymore undo stress from him. I figured he'd learned. He would just leave my stuff there, that would be there end of it.
No such luck. Instead he text'd me with this :
very mature with the skipping out on work early to not seem me;
you're not getting your stuff back without an attempt at resolving this, which
is a lot more mature than how you're acting. You will call me at 9:30 pm or i start
snapping discs.
+++
the funny part is a read this at 12 am, after watching a movie and having a wonderful, stress free night. Obviously i didn't call him.
I don't think he gets that i don't want to talk to him anymore. He is a nasty piece of work. He is mean, and childish, and doesn't adhere to the space and boundaries i have ever set.
Still. Eek. Crazy ex's. My mom told me recently that she was glad that i had split up with him. She found him controlling, and manipulative, and beleived it wouldn't be long until he would hit me. Weird vibe about it or something.
Anyway, the dvds, if i don't get them back- are replaceable.
And he will realize, that he too is.
Number Two.
My father is trying to get in touch with me again. I don't think i posted much on the last time, but he's used facebook to find me. After 11 years, and no child support. I willingly stopping seeing him because i did not enjoy my visits with him anymore, when i was young. I told him if he drank around me, being an alcoholic, that i couldn't see him. So i never saw him again. Time went by.
This message said. Hi Sarah.
Long time no talk,How are you doing, more important how is life treating you, Lots to talk about.
If you want to talk lets start by email.
I still love and miss you.
Tony or Dad?
The thing is. the last time i responded to him. He didn't, or lack-lusterly. I asked what happened to him since those years when i saw him. Why he proceeded to stay silent for so long. He said nothing. Didn't even acknowledge what had happened between us. It got frustrating and difficult. Then there was more silence. I stopped messaging. It was painful.
Now he's trying it again.
Bah. Can't the people in my life who i end things with, just stay out??
Well that's it for now.