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[mila_bila]

This is what I wrote to my Dad.

Subject: Hi Dad, this is Important

Next year my  massage class and work schedual will be really
tight. If you go to www.sbbti.com you'll see why; weird hours and days.
If I chose to take the classes I want, which only come yearly, than I
won't have room to take my city college classes and attend

Comments

[anonymous]

Get over yourself. Your dad is not trying to guilt trip you. It sounds like your grandfather left money for your dad to hand out to you. Parents like to keep a leash on these things. If you spend all the money now, what are you going to do in the future? Sure, you may have successfully started a career massaging people, but if you change your mind, or some bump in the road comes along that drains your financially, what then? Your dad won't be able to help you out because he already gave you the money.

Try to twist this into a positive. It doesn't sound like he's going to force you to stick to a major, he just wants you to continue taking classes. You want to take rowing again, so there's a unit. Take an anatomy course, or a physical therapy-type of class. You can still take a couple of courses that interest you. If all else fails, just take P.E. units at the gym. That way you can continue to meet your weight/appearance goals and your dad is paying for that.

Also, why should he give you free reign over that money? It doesn't seem like you're spending very wisely. Saving up money so that you can go to a rave and do drugs? If you have the resources to do that, great! Enjoy yourself. But since you want to start carrying your own weight financially with Eddie, you should probably get on top of that first. Then start budgeting your income so that you can go have fun with whatever you want to do.

[mila_bila]

If you are on my friends list than thank you for the opinion. If your view of me is that I spend all my money on drugs and clothing than you obviosly don't know me well enough for me to consider your comment on my life valid. If you are one of my close friends who simply don't want me to direct my anger at your rudely put comment, I hope that you would respect more out of me and respect me enough to give you a direct answer.
Also," Get over yourself" is the worst way to ever begin a conversation. We aren't twelve year olds, and if you ever expect people to listen to what you think, you had better start being more polite.
I post these entries to get feed back, and to vent. All comments, no matter how much I dissagree with them, still mean something, so thank you anyway's.

[mila_bila]

* expect more out of me