im with desert zen here. i never seem to be able to say things the right way at times, and its never constructive when i try.
but... "You’re a threat, and you need the same. Anyone less a risk than ourselves isn’t enough to keep up, keep around, keep alive, or understand. Only those born to it are capable of understanding."
ow. i can relate to that one, really. I only ever went for women that i was positive would one day realize they could do better than me, and then do so. Hell, I still think that about my wife, now and again. That she'll wake up one day, look at me, and think, shit, i can have better than him, im out of here.
That said, Ihave and had several deep friendships with people that would like it to be more, or where i would have liked it to be more. State it at the START. Say to the person, i know you'll never want me sexually, but i do want YOU, but i know that wont happen. still want to be friends?
maybe they'll say no, and walk away. Better to know that now then later, i feel. but thats me. Myself, i think that anyone that would say no to that isnt worth my time and my friendship, and i think anyone that would say no to being a friend of yours becuase you have feelings for them, well, they arent worth your time or your friendship, in my opinion.
but...
"You’re a threat, and you need the same. Anyone less a risk than ourselves isn’t enough to keep up, keep around, keep alive, or understand. Only those born to it are capable of understanding."
ow. i can relate to that one, really. I only ever went for women that i was positive would one day realize they could do better than me, and then do so. Hell, I still think that about my wife, now and again. That she'll wake up one day, look at me, and think, shit, i can have better than him, im out of here.
That said, Ihave and had several deep friendships with people that would like it to be more, or where i would have liked it to be more. State it at the START. Say to the person, i know you'll never want me sexually, but i do want YOU, but i know that wont happen. still want to be friends?
maybe they'll say no, and walk away. Better to know that now then later, i feel. but thats me. Myself, i think that anyone that would say no to that isnt worth my time and my friendship, and i think anyone that would say no to being a friend of yours becuase you have feelings for them, well, they arent worth your time or your friendship, in my opinion.
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