Society, you're just the funniest little thing
Did you know that being self reliant and resourceful are classified as symptoms of a schizotypal personality disorder? And if you happen to be creative as well then you're a completely dizzy motherfucker.
And then again, labeling everything, feeling quilty for not being "perfect", avoiding responsibility, being scared, and needing constant reassurement from people who don't even know what they're doing themselves is completely normal, acceptable, everyday behaviour.