May 31, 2005 20:07
i still don't get it! i don't know how many times i have surfed personal ad site and find postings of guys who have boyfriends looking for more gay friends, and what is wrong with str8 guys as friends anyways?. they always have the same excuses , just looking for friends or someone to go to the club with, and it really makes me wonder. if you talk to them on messenger they never seem to come right out front and tell you they have a boyfriend until you ask them, seems like the first thing they would say " i have a boyfriend ". of course they always say they are NEVER into hook ups which i take it as meaning thats just what they are doing. what gets me is they have current boyfriends and keep updating their personal ads weekly with new pictures. worse yet i could be on my webcam doing who knows what and these guys with boyfriends always want some kind of strip show which i would admit can be fun but seems very unfair to their boyfriends. so many guys around the tri county area want three ways, guys on the side, and are cheating it seems so unreal. seems like guys just can't go from one to another without having a waiting list so they can just jump to the next guy. i just hope not all gay or bi guys are like this, but i have ran across many guys from live journal, aol and yahoo who all have boyfriends and are still looking for something in cyber space. so don't let them fool you!