Sigh. I hate how much nerds tend to fit a certain mold. Specifically the whole not liking "normal" social functions and preferring to stay in and be online instead of go out on the weekends. I have a hard time making friends with people who aren't at least a little bit nerdy. I've found that most people I've met who aren't nerds don't really have any passion for anything. I don't understand people like that and I can't connect with them. But as a consequence, pretty much all of my friends are the would rather stay at home on tumblr types. Which means I never have anyone to go out to bars with and this fucking sucks. Especially not since the safety promoting types are constantly on about how you shouldn't go out drinking by yourself and shit. And the number of rape cases reported in my school's newspaper is a pretty solid deterrent to going out alone, too. I did go out by myself on Saturday night, though, and I had an awesome time. But it's frustrating because I'd like to go out with friends but all of my friends are too shy/introverted/quiet/whatever. The ones who are even of age, anyway.
It's kind of funny, when you think about it. A lot of nerds love to claim they're nonconformist or what have you but really a ton of them just conform to a different mold.
Day 05 - Your definition of love
Hm. There are multiple kinds of love. I guess to me, to love is to feel so strongly connected to someone or something that you want them to be happy or to do well, and you want to have them in your life no matter what. That's a basic definition that covers any sort of love for other people and animals, as well as for hobbies, interests, things, etc.
To be a bit more specific to love that can be reciprocated (see; between people, and people and animals), to love someone is to always be there for them, to forgive their faults, and to make their lives better in any way you can without expecting reward. Something like that.
Day 01 - Introduce Yourself
Day 02 - Your first love
Day 03 - Your parents
Day 04 - What you ate today
Day 06 - Your day
Day 07 - Your best friend
Day 08 - A moment
Day 09 - Your beliefs
Day 10 - What you wore today
Day 11 - Your siblings
Day 12 - What’s in your bag
Day 13 - This week
Day 14 - What you wore today
Day 15 - Your dreams
Day 16 - Your first kiss
Day 17 - Your favorite memory
Day 18 - Your favorite birthday
Day 19 - Something you regret
Day 20 - This month
Day 21 - Another moment
Day 22 - Something that upsets you
Day 23 - Something that makes you feel better
Day 24 - Something that makes you cry
Day 25 - A first
Day 26 - Your fears
Day 27 - Your favorite place
Day 28 - Something that you miss
Day 29 - Your aspirations
Day 30 - One last moment
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