I know you can have more than one friend becasue I do. You should have more than one friend. But when my best friend and my boyfriend's best friend are excluding us, the people who INTRODUCED the best friends, one cannot help but feel unappreciated, left out and hurt.
For one. Neither of you have ever been excluded. When Jenn started hanging out with us, You and Rick were busy and we did invite you. You already had plans. And as for the first time I went and hung out with Jenn you were also invited to that. You had plans with Rick. I didn't know because I was Rick's friend I wasn't allowed to be friends with other people. Rick has been far from my best friend since he started dating you. Rick and I don't talk to each other like we used to. I used to be able to call Rick and talk to him whenever. Since he has been dating you I can't do that. You know what, I got over it. I was happy for him. Rick would call me and invite me places. Not only Mike. Now I don't get phone calls. Mike does. But you know come to think of it.. If mine and Rick's relationship became that way because of you.. Then isn't it possible that You and Jenn's relationship became that way because of Rick. Meaning you had less and less time for her because it was now being spent with Rick. I don't have issues with you being with Rick
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Misty I want you to know I love you. I apologize if I ever made you feel bad for not calling you as often as we used to or call you to invite you to events. I apologize for considering you and Mike a family over the past year and assuming just because I invited one meant I was inviting both. Further I apologize if you feel that just because you are my friend, you cannot be someone else's friend. I want you to have friends; I want you to have great relationships with great people. If I were selfish and did not want you to be friends with anyone but me, do you think I would have encouraged a relationship with Mike years ago? But you own comments here make it sound as if I can't be anyone else's friend because I am your friend. You sound as if you can't accept the fact you and Mike are a family and when I call him I am in fact calling and inviting you as well. I assumed it was a given
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You know...my post has NOTHING to do with you...I came to LJ via WC/Weddingchannel.com message boards.
There was ALOT of drama on WC and it is my WC friends on my friends list I am refering too.
So hope that explains my drama....i have made other friends here on LJ that are not associated with WC...and I you are one of them!
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