am i a bad person?

[midnighteyes504]

so becky just called and we had this huge fight. see, im supposed to stay here at her house while the guys are in iraq because her husband isnt sending her any money to help pay the bills, and jessy is sending me some, enough to basically cover all the bills im going to have (and extra if i stay with becky). But since ive been here, shes treated

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feel bad for ya

[crimsonknight22]

i feel for ya. but your cousin isnt your responsibility. she is her own person and if shes been out there so much longer than you and ur getting all your stuff together, there is no excuse for her to not have planned for this. i know u want to care about her, but i say u should move out if thats what u want, but check in on her from time to time to see how she is doing. Granted your getting so much help from jessy, but your the one who is starting out from scratch so u need it. and as far as the chores...i can relate still living at home. i want to move out but its just not practical till i make more money at a new or second job, but for now when my mom askes me to do a few chores like mow the lawn or put away the dishes, i do it cuz i know she is letting me stay there by her choice. if u want me to elaborate more or just wanna chat/vent some feelings, i wanna be here for ya in case jessy cant talk. i just wanna be the best friend i can for ya. whatever happens i hope ur happy with the results :)