Aug 09, 2005 17:48
Another article I read about taking the plunge:
There are two prerequisites to being ready for marriage. One, the timing is right: you're mentally ready to bond with another person and compromise forevermore. Two, you've found Mr. or Mrs. Right. How do you know that this person is your proverbial soulmate? Corey Donaldson, author of 'Don't You Dare Get Married Until You Read This!', prescribes questions, and lots of them.
Here are the top questions they suggested from this author:
FAVORITE COREY QUESTIONS FOR COUPLES CONSIDERING MARRIAGE:
If we eliminated physical attraction from our relationship, what would be left to sustain us?
What makes you feel important?
What do you expect of me sexually?
What did you dislike most about previous partners?
What is and what is not cheating?
In what ways are we different?
At what point in a marriage do you feel divorce is appropriate?
When do you need space away from me?
Generally speaking, when your mom and dad have an argument, who is right? Why?
How will we decide what money is mine, yours, or ours?
Hmmm..... I like these and plan to spend some time on them. Time to get out your thinking cap honey!! :0)