one last entry.
i think this is going to be my last entry. kaytys parents read my and glorias livejournals. m-o-m asked us to erase them, but i have the feeling that there wasnt a question about it. gloria just erased hers yesterday, but i dont think that i can do that. so instead, im making it friends only and just never posting in it again. hopefully that
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We DID trust you and this journal just confirms that we were stupid - we should not have trusted you. Given the circumstances - you were obviously not able to handle the situations that you were in - and continue to put yourself in. This journal entry is proof of that. We brought you in and held you close, as if you were our own. Now we have to pray and hope that you will not become a victim of the cricumstances that you defiantly go forward to create for yourself, your family and your friends.
There is always a victim and a witness to every bad thing. We pray that you become neither. But if you continue to put yourself (and those you love) at risk - your chances increase.
Tell me.... what will the journal entry be if Kayty or Gloria come up missing? What about your sister? or your nephew? There are certain situations that you create that move forward like a boulder down a cliff - once pushed there is no going back.
"Sorry M-O-M, Kayty smoked some bad weed, now she doesn't speak so well....ever again."
"Opps, G got a little too drunk, and what do we do with the new baby she is having?"
"Meg got a little to drunk and I think a bunch of guys may have violated her..."
What would you say? How would that conversation go?
"Hi M-O-M!, I was a kid, I made a mistake, sorry, it was necesaary. I have to make mistakes in order to grow up you know. Sorry about your kids and all. I am hoping my next mistake will just hurt me, and not my friends. Love M"
We are not willing to take the chances you are with our daughters. We love our daughters too much to allow them to risk their lives and well being with others that do not respect them enough to do the same. We can't help you make the right decisions. We can help them however.
Keep in mind, this is our mistake. We placed trust in you, All of you, and that you would behave as you do in our presence.
We got violated...
We got our trust broken...
We made a mistake...
We should not ever have assumed that these things were beyond ALL of your doings.
Our fault.
The fact that you still don't understand that yet confirms, our fault. We placed too much trust in you for your age. This is not your fault. It is ours. You ALL made the best decisions you could for your age. This just proved you were too young to make them.
The only mistake we made was assuming you were ALL mature enough to make the right decisions. We failed as parents by placing you ALL in situations that you are too young to handle. Where you would be forced into making decisions that you could not make. As you mature, you will hopefuly be able to have the strength to make the right desicions. But this is not where we are now. We are lucky however. We get a chance to fix it. Everyone is still here.
As a result of us trusting you All we now have....
a) Daughters who are doing drugs
b) Daughters who are drinking illegaly
c) Daughters who lie to their parents
Have we missed something?
Thanks for reciprocating the trust we extended you. Now who brokes whos trust?
P.S. Blaming someone for reading a public website is stupid and again speaks to you not being able to make responsible decisions in this area. You wanted people to read this stuff. You wanted comments. If you didn't, you wouldn't have put it on the Internet.
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