Stray thoughts from online chat
A guy in New Jersey, who's shopping online for a husband, asked me what do I look for.
What do I look for in a partner (life, not sex, although both would be nice)?
If I had a wish list for talents and behaviors, or physical characteristics - I don't think that any of the men or boys that I have had relationships with would be able to pass the test. But that would just be a wish list... (I'll share my most recent wish list if you are really interested. Just let me know.)
What I do know about myself, is that there's a physical response that I recognize in myself as "falling in love". (there's actually some nausea and dizziness involved). The boy has always been emotionally available, somewhat empathic and have the ability to see something in me that I don't show to very many people.
What do I look for in a partner (life, not sex, although both would be nice)?
If I had a wish list for talents and behaviors, or physical characteristics - I don't think that any of the men or boys that I have had relationships with would be able to pass the test. But that would just be a wish list... (I'll share my most recent wish list if you are really interested. Just let me know.)
What I do know about myself, is that there's a physical response that I recognize in myself as "falling in love". (there's actually some nausea and dizziness involved). The boy has always been emotionally available, somewhat empathic and have the ability to see something in me that I don't show to very many people.