Nov 03, 2005 02:05
WARNING: This is a theory from my mind and my opinions... If you don't like it you don't have to read it... If you don't agree with me you won't be the first, if you feel the need to write a comment asking to retract what I say I will not comply because it is my thought... So sit back read or don't just don't complain to me!!!
Where'd all the good guys go?
This theory involves girls looking for good honest guys. Most guys have it in their mind that girls like a bad ass or anti-law breaking tough guy. And to a lot of girls this is true. They look for a guy who is rugged and tough. This forces guy to try and fake a personality and become tougher and become a person that they are not. I have seen this first hand and have done it myself a few times. In turn these tough guys make fun of the nice honest guys to the point where the girls laugh and basically kill the nice and honest young man. This causes some to change to become that bad guy or even become a loner which will never open up to girls or never even let them get to know them. So in conclusion the nice and honest guys are all around... they have just mutated and changed. If you go back in the past over half of the tough guys that exist now... used to be nice guys. And the nice guys that still exist are hard to find cause they are hiding... trying not to get made fun of and made total asses by the "cool" people. So just give that loner or quiet guy a try... they may just be the man you've been looking for, they are just afraid to come out into the open.
P.S. I am not pissed off about the theory... it was something else...