I am female, hear me roar
When I see that brother of mine, I'm going to thwack him so hard he won't see straight for a week. I am absolutely pissed. I was talking to him yesterday, and he told me he got suspended from the bus for three days. Of course, I asked him what he did. He said he was written up twice. Of course, that didn't answer my question, so he said he cussed and he wrote a note. The cussing I understood, but the note confused me, so I asked him what it was about the note that got him in trouble and he said he didn't know. Never has anyone I ever known gotten written up for writing on the bus, and then he let slip that one of his friends dared him to. Big mistake, because warning bells went off in my head.
I went and emailed my Dad, asking what had happened. Here's what I got back, and it made my blood absolutely boil.
"Sounds like he told you less than a quarter of the story. On Tuesday they had a substitute driver and he told her to frick off. We have been on him for quite a while about his mouth. So that got him written up. Then he wrote a note to a girl in his class that said I want to fuck you come to my bed now. The principal read it back to me. I couldn't believe him. So they came down on him hard and suspended him for 3 days. He knows it is inappropriate. He said to me that his friend egged him on to do it, but like I told him he knows it was wrong. I don't know if she will call his mother or not. That is up to her. She will be home tomorrow and then will deal with him. When I talked to the Principal I told her it won't happen again. I really have no idea what is getting into him but it is not going to happen again."
And I'm not the only person he lied to, apparently.
"No someone thinks he can also lie about stuff. He didn't say a thing to me when he came home from school yesterday, but the Principal sure told me what happened. She gets home this afternoon and it's not going to be good. She has a whole day to stew on it so I may have to leave for a few hours. He just doesn't seem to get how serious and wrong that was. And he has been mouthy like this since last summer. He got really mouthy with Grandma J. when he stayed there last summer.
One way or another we will put a stop to it."
You'd think he'd realize that Dad would realize something is up if the bus doesn't stop to pick him up! Now, I think he was lying when he said he was suspended from the bus. I actually think he might have been suspended from school. However, I honestly cannot believe he wrote that. To a little girl!! I understand he's only 10, but damn it he should know better. That poor girl is going to have nightmares after this and I bet her parents are both fuming and terrified for their little girl. He seriously needs to learn some respect for females and people in general.
I'm seriously worried about how he's going to turn out when he gets older. I know he wants to be a scientist, but he doesn't focus and doesn't really care about his schoolwork even though he's really smart. I'm shocked he's made it through third and fourth grade to be honest. I don't know, I think my dad and stepmom should do some major intervention and maybe send him to a psychiatrist. Something's going on here. He's always been horrible, but never to this extent. I think if we don't do something now he's going to turn into a creep at best and a serial rapist at worst. I think he's seriously leaning toward serial rapist, if that note is anything to go by,
Note the demanding tone? The crudeness? It sounds like a person who's used to getting his way whether it be voluntary or by force, and that's what really creeps me out. I'm really worried about him. Hell, I'm worried about me if that's how he turns out. Its died down a lot, but he used to flirt with me a lot and try to feel me up when he was younger, which was only a year or two ago. There's a couple of times when I was changing and he tried to watch, and that was less than a year ago. It's really scaring me, and I'm an 18 year old girl perfectly capable of defending herself against a 10 year old boy. I only hope my parents take my advice and send him to that psychiatrist.
When I see him though, I am definitely going to set him straight. No female deserves to be treated or talked to like he did to that girl, and I'm going to let him know it. I may be female, but there is no way in hell I am not going to stand up for little girls everywhere and give it to him straight. There is no way in hell I am going to let him forget that we deserve respect just like everyone else.
I went and emailed my Dad, asking what had happened. Here's what I got back, and it made my blood absolutely boil.
"Sounds like he told you less than a quarter of the story. On Tuesday they had a substitute driver and he told her to frick off. We have been on him for quite a while about his mouth. So that got him written up. Then he wrote a note to a girl in his class that said I want to fuck you come to my bed now. The principal read it back to me. I couldn't believe him. So they came down on him hard and suspended him for 3 days. He knows it is inappropriate. He said to me that his friend egged him on to do it, but like I told him he knows it was wrong. I don't know if she will call his mother or not. That is up to her. She will be home tomorrow and then will deal with him. When I talked to the Principal I told her it won't happen again. I really have no idea what is getting into him but it is not going to happen again."
And I'm not the only person he lied to, apparently.
"No someone thinks he can also lie about stuff. He didn't say a thing to me when he came home from school yesterday, but the Principal sure told me what happened. She gets home this afternoon and it's not going to be good. She has a whole day to stew on it so I may have to leave for a few hours. He just doesn't seem to get how serious and wrong that was. And he has been mouthy like this since last summer. He got really mouthy with Grandma J. when he stayed there last summer.
One way or another we will put a stop to it."
You'd think he'd realize that Dad would realize something is up if the bus doesn't stop to pick him up! Now, I think he was lying when he said he was suspended from the bus. I actually think he might have been suspended from school. However, I honestly cannot believe he wrote that. To a little girl!! I understand he's only 10, but damn it he should know better. That poor girl is going to have nightmares after this and I bet her parents are both fuming and terrified for their little girl. He seriously needs to learn some respect for females and people in general.
I'm seriously worried about how he's going to turn out when he gets older. I know he wants to be a scientist, but he doesn't focus and doesn't really care about his schoolwork even though he's really smart. I'm shocked he's made it through third and fourth grade to be honest. I don't know, I think my dad and stepmom should do some major intervention and maybe send him to a psychiatrist. Something's going on here. He's always been horrible, but never to this extent. I think if we don't do something now he's going to turn into a creep at best and a serial rapist at worst. I think he's seriously leaning toward serial rapist, if that note is anything to go by,
Note the demanding tone? The crudeness? It sounds like a person who's used to getting his way whether it be voluntary or by force, and that's what really creeps me out. I'm really worried about him. Hell, I'm worried about me if that's how he turns out. Its died down a lot, but he used to flirt with me a lot and try to feel me up when he was younger, which was only a year or two ago. There's a couple of times when I was changing and he tried to watch, and that was less than a year ago. It's really scaring me, and I'm an 18 year old girl perfectly capable of defending herself against a 10 year old boy. I only hope my parents take my advice and send him to that psychiatrist.
When I see him though, I am definitely going to set him straight. No female deserves to be treated or talked to like he did to that girl, and I'm going to let him know it. I may be female, but there is no way in hell I am not going to stand up for little girls everywhere and give it to him straight. There is no way in hell I am going to let him forget that we deserve respect just like everyone else.