In a Cunnilingus Drought
Why is so hard to find men who like to give oral to a woman? I was spoiled with 10 years of great oral sex, great sex in general.
Why are most men so selfish to want or expect me to give them a blow job when they hesitate to return the action? I find that I have withheld oral sex in the past hoping they would increase the frequency, heavens forbid even have a frequency, which only resulted in my dissatisfaction at not orally pleasuring them.
I love oral. I love to give oral to men and women. I know what a woman tastes like. I know what it's like to have the mixture of saliva and juices running over your chin and lower half of your face. I know what it's like to be nose deep in wonderful pubic hair with your jaw aching from being spread wide and your tongue tired from the plunge.
I seem to get more satisfaction by giving oral pleasure than about 90% of the lovers I've had. Why is this?
I can only come, so far, from clitoral stimulation. I do not come from penetration, even if it feels oh, so fucking good!. I wish I did. I wish my g-spot worked better than a deep, dull, good sensation. I enjoy masturbating, but the best orgasms I have had have always come from receiving oral sex. So I miss having mind blowing orgasms in place of my hand or a vibrator. I miss the intimacy of a lovers mouth on my cunt. If there were a replacement sex toy for the mouth, it still wouldn't be as good as a lover's lips, tongue, and teeth on my cunt.
I have had more men give my strap-on a blow job, than I have had men mouth worshiping my cunt. Of those nearing 50 lovers I've had (men and women)... I can count less than five that have even given oral sex a try, aside from every single one of them getting or wanting a blow job from me.
I know I taste good. I enjoy tasting myself after having my fingers or a dildo in me or smelling my scent on my hands after masturbating. So how do I increase my chances of oral sex?
I ask. I reciprocate. They waffle. They tell me they don't like how wet it is. I've even had one who would hack afterward. Tell me that doesn't do my ego wonders. (I think he wasn't letting the come and saliva just run down his chin. I think he tried to swallow all of it.)
I am even understanding, if they don't feel they know enough about giving oral sex. I communicate, there is no misunderstanding about what you're doing. I am a glad instructor for those lovers who have wanted to orally pleasure me.
So what do I do? I currently have a great lover who doesn't like giving oral sex. He's said he'll do it, because women like it. I'm feeling lopsided as far as the oral sex scale goes. And I really try not to count. But after so many great blow jobs and no mouth for my cunt? *sigh* I'm feeling the old urge to want to withhold again, much to my oral pleasure giving detriment.
I'll talk to him more. Let him know how much pleasure I get from not just giving but receiving oral sex. I really like this guy. And definitely not because, in all other respects, he is great in bed. I enjoy the rest of him too.
Why are most men so selfish to want or expect me to give them a blow job when they hesitate to return the action? I find that I have withheld oral sex in the past hoping they would increase the frequency, heavens forbid even have a frequency, which only resulted in my dissatisfaction at not orally pleasuring them.
I love oral. I love to give oral to men and women. I know what a woman tastes like. I know what it's like to have the mixture of saliva and juices running over your chin and lower half of your face. I know what it's like to be nose deep in wonderful pubic hair with your jaw aching from being spread wide and your tongue tired from the plunge.
I seem to get more satisfaction by giving oral pleasure than about 90% of the lovers I've had. Why is this?
I can only come, so far, from clitoral stimulation. I do not come from penetration, even if it feels oh, so fucking good!. I wish I did. I wish my g-spot worked better than a deep, dull, good sensation. I enjoy masturbating, but the best orgasms I have had have always come from receiving oral sex. So I miss having mind blowing orgasms in place of my hand or a vibrator. I miss the intimacy of a lovers mouth on my cunt. If there were a replacement sex toy for the mouth, it still wouldn't be as good as a lover's lips, tongue, and teeth on my cunt.
I have had more men give my strap-on a blow job, than I have had men mouth worshiping my cunt. Of those nearing 50 lovers I've had (men and women)... I can count less than five that have even given oral sex a try, aside from every single one of them getting or wanting a blow job from me.
I know I taste good. I enjoy tasting myself after having my fingers or a dildo in me or smelling my scent on my hands after masturbating. So how do I increase my chances of oral sex?
I ask. I reciprocate. They waffle. They tell me they don't like how wet it is. I've even had one who would hack afterward. Tell me that doesn't do my ego wonders. (I think he wasn't letting the come and saliva just run down his chin. I think he tried to swallow all of it.)
I am even understanding, if they don't feel they know enough about giving oral sex. I communicate, there is no misunderstanding about what you're doing. I am a glad instructor for those lovers who have wanted to orally pleasure me.
So what do I do? I currently have a great lover who doesn't like giving oral sex. He's said he'll do it, because women like it. I'm feeling lopsided as far as the oral sex scale goes. And I really try not to count. But after so many great blow jobs and no mouth for my cunt? *sigh* I'm feeling the old urge to want to withhold again, much to my oral pleasure giving detriment.
I'll talk to him more. Let him know how much pleasure I get from not just giving but receiving oral sex. I really like this guy. And definitely not because, in all other respects, he is great in bed. I enjoy the rest of him too.