good things come to those who wait, or so i keep telling myself
you deserve the best and i can't imagine you not getting the best at some point.. it seems unfair because you see so many people get to the sweet without having to bother with much of the sour, but you'll appreciate what you have so much more when it comes to you
i have always given all i coudl to my relationships.. and in return i have always gotten shat on.
Dinnae ye hate those couples, the ones that be sickeningly in love? They cannae go 3 steps without kissin' 'n huggin' 'n combin' the others hair.. Wearin' the same goddamn colour clothes, 'n shoppin' at the same stores so they can carry around matchin' bags. Walkin' two 'o the same breed 'o dog. ..Makes ye juss wanna fuckin' kill one 'o em te torture the other.
Or maybe that's juss me. *smirks*
But seriously, bloke. With the romantic tendencies ye have, ye may possibly overwhelm some women. A lotto women have never experienced any "romantic" gestures from men, their passion consists 'o 10 minutes in the bedroom every couple days. They probably take ye fer granted once they realize yer gentle personality. It's happened te me, too. By no means am I insultin' yer way 'o conductin' yerself in a relationship, in fact I think it's great, but juss a thought.
yesh i know.. probably why i mentioned the assholes getting the better part of the deal.. actually had a woman stop dating me because of that... i wasn't an asshole and she liked that sort.. *laughs*
and yeah i wanna kill dem sickening couples too.. hell yes..
powerful post...but I have no comment because you already said it all. I hope you continue to do everything you do though, don't become one of the 'assholes'!
Ya know girls look for guys like you, and all we find are the assholes. I empathize with you. I am not gonna pull the bullshit "You'll find it someday" because when you don't look it smacks you in the head. Maybe then you won't want it. Life is a bitch and she likes to fuck with people. You can have love without sparks, and you can have sparks without love. It is harder to find both, and I'm in a long-term relationship. Granted I don't comb his hair, and dress like him, but I do get fucked over. If Alex came over in a tie and had a picnic basket I would probably cry. The thing is we get so used to devoting ourselves to assholes that when a genuine GOOD GUY comes along we feel insufficient. However I think these quotes could probably help more than anything I could say
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I agree completely. A girl goes through so many assholes before she finds a good guy that she doesn't know how to deal with it. I wouldn't know what to do with myself if a guy dressed up and took me for a picnic at the lake.
I honestly wouldn't consider myself worthy of a guy who did that. I could see myself sabotaging the relationship before it ever even started in a case like that.
Don't stop giving a shit. The world needs all the good guys it can get.
I'm not going to sit here and tell you that a perfect loving relationship is going to just appear because you wouldn't want to hear that. They all have pro's and con's...no relationship is perfect. We all know that.
And yes, someone who does sweet things like that does make me feel less worthy of his love. Not necessarily all girls, but me. I guess it would seem too perfect. I'd think that it was going to come to an end eventually. Like the guy was winning me, then things would change after he knew that he had won.
(not that you didn't already know this)echoxJune 27 2002, 08:13:31 UTC
"oh and please, dont sit there and tell me it will happen, i am tired of hearing that drivel, especially from people who are in long term loving relationships.. makes me want to scream.."
I just wanted to point out that long term loving relationships do lose their passion. And passion lost is one of the main reasons couples break up. I found it usually comes right around the year point. People just start getting "used" to each other, and you are both just there.
So, I too, know what it is like to crave the warm fuzzies of passion....
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you deserve the best and i can't imagine you not getting the best at some point.. it seems unfair because you see so many people get to the sweet without having to bother with much of the sour,
but you'll appreciate what you have so much more when it comes to you
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Dinnae ye hate those couples, the ones that be sickeningly in love? They cannae go 3 steps without kissin' 'n huggin' 'n combin' the others hair.. Wearin' the same goddamn colour clothes, 'n shoppin' at the same stores so they can carry around matchin' bags. Walkin' two 'o the same breed 'o dog. ..Makes ye juss wanna fuckin' kill one 'o em te torture the other.
Or maybe that's juss me. *smirks*
But seriously, bloke. With the romantic tendencies ye have, ye may possibly overwhelm some women. A lotto women have never experienced any "romantic" gestures from men, their passion consists 'o 10 minutes in the bedroom every couple days. They probably take ye fer granted once they realize yer gentle personality. It's happened te me, too.
By no means am I insultin' yer way 'o conductin' yerself in a relationship, in fact I think it's great, but juss a thought.
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and yeah i wanna kill dem sickening couples too.. hell yes..
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I honestly wouldn't consider myself worthy of a guy who did that. I could see myself sabotaging the relationship before it ever even started in a case like that.
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always nice to know.. *smacks forehead* i really must stop giving a shit, that is how i will be with someone decent for a change...
*grumble* why is it so damn hard to just show someone how you feel.. my god...
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I'm not going to sit here and tell you that a perfect loving relationship is going to just appear because you wouldn't want to hear that. They all have pro's and con's...no relationship is perfect. We all know that.
And yes, someone who does sweet things like that does make me feel less worthy of his love. Not necessarily all girls, but me. I guess it would seem too perfect. I'd think that it was going to come to an end eventually. Like the guy was winning me, then things would change after he knew that he had won.
Just thoughts...
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I just wanted to point out that long term loving relationships do lose their passion. And passion lost is one of the main reasons couples break up. I found it usually comes right around the year point. People just start getting "used" to each other, and you are both just there.
So, I too, know what it is like to crave the warm fuzzies of passion....
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