True... and now she's blocked me from her page, instead of facing the facts that her art is NOT the bee's knees like she thinks it is. I even posted some links in the childfree comm for LULZ. And boy did I get some XD
I used to be a whiny emo and in fact I did some rather stupid things at my college, like having some outbursts and getting into rather childish arguments with the staff. Hoo boy. I needed a sharp shock from reality, and you better believe I got one. In fact, I got quite a few, and truthfully, they helped me a bit in growing. Not to say that I'm perfect(I am far from that) but I've improved a LOT in dealing with people in general.
Anyways, I hope you can get custody of your son if you and Sarah split up. She needs some shocks and she needs them BAD. And I think she needs to realize that she can't live walled away from reality or hide behind a learning disability. Hell, *I* may have a learning disability or more than one, but I've gotten far enough to where I have a job and a credit card now(and I know how to use it without getting bogged down by debt) and even though I've reached a lot of milestones late in life(such as getting a job) I am thankful for every step I make.
And even with all the problems I've had I can keep a smile on my face because lately I've learned to appreciate the little things, like being able to drive, write checks, buy stuff online, pay credit card bills, learn Spanish and speak it fluently enough to where I can fool people into thinking I know more of it than I really do, and the true friends I have both online and irl, especially at work. I had felt sorry for myself in late '03 and throughout '04, and now I realize that life is too short for shit like that. Nowadays I try to focus on the positive and I truely wish Sarah would do the same, if not for herself, then for the sake of you guys' son, and keeping the family together.
I used to be a whiny emo and in fact I did some rather stupid things at my college, like having some outbursts and getting into rather childish arguments with the staff. Hoo boy. I needed a sharp shock from reality, and you better believe I got one. In fact, I got quite a few, and truthfully, they helped me a bit in growing. Not to say that I'm perfect(I am far from that) but I've improved a LOT in dealing with people in general.
Anyways, I hope you can get custody of your son if you and Sarah split up. She needs some shocks and she needs them BAD. And I think she needs to realize that she can't live walled away from reality or hide behind a learning disability. Hell, *I* may have a learning disability or more than one, but I've gotten far enough to where I have a job and a credit card now(and I know how to use it without getting bogged down by debt) and even though I've reached a lot of milestones late in life(such as getting a job) I am thankful for every step I make.
And even with all the problems I've had I can keep a smile on my face because lately I've learned to appreciate the little things, like being able to drive, write checks, buy stuff online, pay credit card bills, learn Spanish and speak it fluently enough to where I can fool people into thinking I know more of it than I really do, and the true friends I have both online and irl, especially at work. I had felt sorry for myself in late '03 and throughout '04, and now I realize that life is too short for shit like that. Nowadays I try to focus on the positive and I truely wish Sarah would do the same, if not for herself, then for the sake of you guys' son, and keeping the family together.
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