what about it

[melodessey]

love is the strongest emotion
it creates jealously, anger, pain, sadness, craving, hate and happiness
see all the things that come along with it don't weigh out equal.
So why do we need it?

Comments

[lotacus]

I am sorry. I have to refute your claim. Love does not create any of those emotions. It is the person that creates them. It is what the person associates love with.

Ignorance and selfishness creates those negative emotions. Love really is non-existant so I dont know why people use it. What really constitutes love? Some people believe they love someone just because they are around each other for some time. Some people believe they love another, just because they have common interests. Some people believe love is having sex with someone, or being intimate with another. Those are not any examples of love at all. They are only traits and physical acts.

The world love, I believe has lost all it's context perhaps, and now is just used to manipulate the partner your with. Used to express some sort of undying devotion to another person, but that rarely ever lasts, which goes back to my first point.

What I think is happening here, is that your really in need of something. Not love, as I stated before, it is only a association.

Caring is a much better word. You care about someone the more you get to know them. The more you experience pitfalls and shortcomings with that person, and overcome them. The more you get to know someone the more you care about what happens to them because there is a history between each of you.