I usually don't do these...
I usually don't do these, but I actually found this one interesting. *shrugs* Ok, and it was because I was waiting for dibs on the shower :p
<<1. What is more difficult for you, looking into someone’s eyes when you are telling someone how you feel, or looking into someone’s eyes when they are telling you how they feel?
When they are telling me their feelings… I become all embarrassed and that makes it hard to keep staring at them in the eyes/
2. Think of the last time you were REALLY angry. Why were you angry?
Geeze, I was angry because my younger sister doesn’t listen or do squat around the house and I am the one who gets yelled at.
3. You are on a flight from Honolulu to Chicago non-stop. There is a fire in the back of the plane. You have enough time to make ONE phone call. Who would you call?
My daughter, even if she couldn’t understand me, I would want to hear her voice before I went down with the plane.
4. You are at the doctor's office and she has just informed you that you have approximately one month to live. (1) Do you tell anyone/everyone you are going to die? (2) What do you do with your remaining days? (3) Would you be afraid?
I don’t think I would tell anyone I was going to die. I wouldn’t want them to feel like they have to spend time with me or act as if they like me if they didn’t. I would take my daughter and fly to Japan and Australia, then I would take her to California to visit my home town and spend my remaining days with her. Yes, I would be afraid… but I would mostly be afraid of what would become of my daughter… who should I leave her with to raise her?
5. You can have one of the following two things: trust/love. Which do you choose?
Trust, because trust eliminates the secrets and gives you someone to adore and eventually love.
6. You are walking down the street on your way to work. There is a dog drowning in the canal on the side of the street. Your boss has told you if you are late even once more, you are fired. Do you save the dog?
There are always other jobs. Maybe I’ll teach the dog how to attack my boss.
7. You are unfaithful to your spouse/significant other. Do you tell him/her? Why or Why not?
Yes. My ex cheated on me and I think that if the two really love each other, they can overcome the cheating. But if he finds out from someone else… it makes it that much worse.
8. Your best friend confesses that he/she has feelings for you more then just friendship. He/she is falling in love with you. What do you do/say?
I’ve been in this situation more than once. It’s hard to tell them how you feel and IF you feel anything at all. Besides, how do you know if its not some crush?
9. Think of the last person who you know that died. You have the chance to give them 1 hour of life back, but you have to give one year of your life. Do you do it?
My little cousin. I only remember the last few hours of my time with him and would love to make some fresh memories with him.
10. Are you the kind of friend that you would want to have as a friend?
Yes and No. I am a great friend, but I can be really mean. I am always there, but sometimes… I let my mouth get the better of me. So if I could keep my mouth shut, then yes.
11. Does love = sex?
I know for a fact that love does NOT equal sex. I’ve been through a relationship like that and when the sex was toned down, the love just was not there.
12. Your boss tells your co-worker that they have to let them go because of work shortage, and they are the newest employee. You have been there much longer. Your co-worker has a family to support and no other means of income. Do you go to your boss and offer to leave the company?
No. Sorry, but in the work place there is no room for friends within the same department. There’s going to jealousy and arguments… BUT… it is a rare occasion to have friends that you can count on in the work place. I would, at least, help out my friend in anyway until he or she was back on their feet. That’s what friends are for.
13. When was the last time you told someone HONESTLY how you felt regardless of how difficult it was for you to say? What did you have to tell the person? Was it difficult??
I told someone that I had similar feelings towards them, but it was hard because I know it won’t work out. It will turn out just like it has in the past when we dated. And… with a kid, you can’t have men coming and going out of your life. It’s one of my promises to my daughter.
14. What would be (or what was) harder for you to tell a friend: you love them or that you do not love them back?
Do not love them back.
15. What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up? Why would it be hard to lose?
My daughter. Before I don’t know what it would be, but I’ve thought about this before and losing Janelle would be the end of my sanity, strength, and will to move on. Once you have kids… you’ll understand.
16. Excluding romantic love, when was the last time you told someone you loved them? Who were they to you?
Haha, actually it was Leah and Serina. Serina I will always love and cherish as a friend and Leah is one of the few exceptions I have within my rule that there cannot be friends at work. We are, though, going for different goals, which make it easy to work together.
17. If you could choose between a blissful, but ignorant life, or a life filled with intellect, but was harsher, which one would you choose?
Intellect, but harsh. It’s the life I have been living and wouldn’t give up for the world. Maybe change a few things, but that’s all. My harsh life has molded me into the person I am today.
18. Imagine. It is a dark night, you are alone, it is raining outside, and you hear someone walking around outside your window. Who do you wish was there with you?
Someone that would love me as much as my daughter.
19. Would you give a homeless person CPR if they were dying?
Well, I don’t know CPR, but I’d at least call 911 and try to do something to help them.
21. You are holding onto your grandmother’s hand and the hand of a newborn that you do not know as they hang over the edge of a cliff. You have to let one go to save the other. Who do you let fall to their death?
The newborn should be easier to pull up, so I wouldn’t have to choose between them. If I could at least save the baby, great, but if my grandmother goes, I’m going with her. There is no way I would let go of her.
22. Are you old fashioned?
Shish, I am but I’m not. I love having the guy open the door, pay the bill, choose the date, be the breadwinner, BUT I like to do things myself. I am not a person who stays at home with the kids all day, making dinner and cleaning the house. I like working and enjoy being independent.
24. Which would you choose, true love with a guarantee of a broken heart, or never loved at all? Why?
Well, the loss of love is hurtful, but it does have happy memories. I have to admit that as bad as the relationship with my ex was, I have many good memories with him that I do miss.
25. If you could do anything or wish anything, what would it be?
To rid my family and myself of money problems, debts, etc. I would also wish for a good husband and wonderful father for my little girl.
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<<1. What is more difficult for you, looking into someone’s eyes when you are telling someone how you feel, or looking into someone’s eyes when they are telling you how they feel?
When they are telling me their feelings… I become all embarrassed and that makes it hard to keep staring at them in the eyes/
2. Think of the last time you were REALLY angry. Why were you angry?
Geeze, I was angry because my younger sister doesn’t listen or do squat around the house and I am the one who gets yelled at.
3. You are on a flight from Honolulu to Chicago non-stop. There is a fire in the back of the plane. You have enough time to make ONE phone call. Who would you call?
My daughter, even if she couldn’t understand me, I would want to hear her voice before I went down with the plane.
4. You are at the doctor's office and she has just informed you that you have approximately one month to live. (1) Do you tell anyone/everyone you are going to die? (2) What do you do with your remaining days? (3) Would you be afraid?
I don’t think I would tell anyone I was going to die. I wouldn’t want them to feel like they have to spend time with me or act as if they like me if they didn’t. I would take my daughter and fly to Japan and Australia, then I would take her to California to visit my home town and spend my remaining days with her. Yes, I would be afraid… but I would mostly be afraid of what would become of my daughter… who should I leave her with to raise her?
5. You can have one of the following two things: trust/love. Which do you choose?
Trust, because trust eliminates the secrets and gives you someone to adore and eventually love.
6. You are walking down the street on your way to work. There is a dog drowning in the canal on the side of the street. Your boss has told you if you are late even once more, you are fired. Do you save the dog?
There are always other jobs. Maybe I’ll teach the dog how to attack my boss.
7. You are unfaithful to your spouse/significant other. Do you tell him/her? Why or Why not?
Yes. My ex cheated on me and I think that if the two really love each other, they can overcome the cheating. But if he finds out from someone else… it makes it that much worse.
8. Your best friend confesses that he/she has feelings for you more then just friendship. He/she is falling in love with you. What do you do/say?
I’ve been in this situation more than once. It’s hard to tell them how you feel and IF you feel anything at all. Besides, how do you know if its not some crush?
9. Think of the last person who you know that died. You have the chance to give them 1 hour of life back, but you have to give one year of your life. Do you do it?
My little cousin. I only remember the last few hours of my time with him and would love to make some fresh memories with him.
10. Are you the kind of friend that you would want to have as a friend?
Yes and No. I am a great friend, but I can be really mean. I am always there, but sometimes… I let my mouth get the better of me. So if I could keep my mouth shut, then yes.
11. Does love = sex?
I know for a fact that love does NOT equal sex. I’ve been through a relationship like that and when the sex was toned down, the love just was not there.
12. Your boss tells your co-worker that they have to let them go because of work shortage, and they are the newest employee. You have been there much longer. Your co-worker has a family to support and no other means of income. Do you go to your boss and offer to leave the company?
No. Sorry, but in the work place there is no room for friends within the same department. There’s going to jealousy and arguments… BUT… it is a rare occasion to have friends that you can count on in the work place. I would, at least, help out my friend in anyway until he or she was back on their feet. That’s what friends are for.
13. When was the last time you told someone HONESTLY how you felt regardless of how difficult it was for you to say? What did you have to tell the person? Was it difficult??
I told someone that I had similar feelings towards them, but it was hard because I know it won’t work out. It will turn out just like it has in the past when we dated. And… with a kid, you can’t have men coming and going out of your life. It’s one of my promises to my daughter.
14. What would be (or what was) harder for you to tell a friend: you love them or that you do not love them back?
Do not love them back.
15. What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up? Why would it be hard to lose?
My daughter. Before I don’t know what it would be, but I’ve thought about this before and losing Janelle would be the end of my sanity, strength, and will to move on. Once you have kids… you’ll understand.
16. Excluding romantic love, when was the last time you told someone you loved them? Who were they to you?
Haha, actually it was Leah and Serina. Serina I will always love and cherish as a friend and Leah is one of the few exceptions I have within my rule that there cannot be friends at work. We are, though, going for different goals, which make it easy to work together.
17. If you could choose between a blissful, but ignorant life, or a life filled with intellect, but was harsher, which one would you choose?
Intellect, but harsh. It’s the life I have been living and wouldn’t give up for the world. Maybe change a few things, but that’s all. My harsh life has molded me into the person I am today.
18. Imagine. It is a dark night, you are alone, it is raining outside, and you hear someone walking around outside your window. Who do you wish was there with you?
Someone that would love me as much as my daughter.
19. Would you give a homeless person CPR if they were dying?
Well, I don’t know CPR, but I’d at least call 911 and try to do something to help them.
21. You are holding onto your grandmother’s hand and the hand of a newborn that you do not know as they hang over the edge of a cliff. You have to let one go to save the other. Who do you let fall to their death?
The newborn should be easier to pull up, so I wouldn’t have to choose between them. If I could at least save the baby, great, but if my grandmother goes, I’m going with her. There is no way I would let go of her.
22. Are you old fashioned?
Shish, I am but I’m not. I love having the guy open the door, pay the bill, choose the date, be the breadwinner, BUT I like to do things myself. I am not a person who stays at home with the kids all day, making dinner and cleaning the house. I like working and enjoy being independent.
24. Which would you choose, true love with a guarantee of a broken heart, or never loved at all? Why?
Well, the loss of love is hurtful, but it does have happy memories. I have to admit that as bad as the relationship with my ex was, I have many good memories with him that I do miss.
25. If you could do anything or wish anything, what would it be?
To rid my family and myself of money problems, debts, etc. I would also wish for a good husband and wonderful father for my little girl.
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