I Thought You Should Know...
If you have something to say to me, say it to ME. If I do or say something that offends you, I am sorry. 99.9% of the time I do not mean it that way and I'm just being how I am. If you don't know that by now, then you don't know me (and maybe you should take the time to do so). If you have some sort of beef with me for some reason, then come to ME so we can talk about it and get on the same page and come to an understanding that we can both feel better about. Don't go beating around the bush by going to someone else and expect THEM to take care of YOUR problem FOR you. That only sets me off into a rage and doesn't fix anything. Maybe you feel like it's not your place to speak to me about it? Well if you have some sort of problem with me or something I say or do, then it IS your place to say something to me. If you just go straight to the source and speak to ME about it, I guarantee I will most likely understand where you're coming from and I'll apologize and fix it. Either that or we'll both come to a mutual understanding, one or both parties will apologize, and then we'll fix it.
Problem solved.
End of story.
Problem solved.
End of story.