Jun 04, 2011 21:48
Jadzia has reached 18 months as of the 18th of May and appears to be a very active toddler .
She goes to Playgroup twice a week at two different playgroups ,one in a centre attached to the Armadale /Kelmscott hospital where I had Jadzia and all we have to do is bring a piece of fruit and the other costs us and they provide the fruit and it is all the way in Bibra lake at a Montessori School . I didn't really want to send Jadzia to a playgroup in our local area cos of some of the neaderthals in our areas and the distance that both playgroups are mean that she is asleep before we get home so I can get lunch or make some food and than sleep .
Still struggling with PND (post natal depression) ,on a new anti depressant and seeing a new psyc and she has a mum like me and I find it disturbing that mums and dads like mine are a breed of people and the psyc has had years of therapy to stop her mum from pushing her around (lets hope it's not years for me ).
Ken is has gone beyond getting sick of Coventry ,people are quiting due to stupid decisions that penalize people ,take away things like holidays and sick days and more and more computers are coming back from depots that have been closing down and morale is low and paranoia is high .
The budgies flock has lessened in the female population and the more active Jadzia gets the closer it comes to the budgies being relocated to outside in the cage that has somewhat set up .
Jadzia's room is still getting slowly emptied out and Jadzia is still living in the lounge room .
For some reason it can take Ken more than half an hour to get Jadzia to sleep at night and in the day time I've usually got her to sleep in 15 mins . I'm thinking he talks and plays around with her too much or maybe at nighttime she is just to stubborn to go to sleep .
Most days apart from going to playgroup I tend to sleep ,try and do chores ,go on the computer ,play with Jadzia and occasionally go out somewhere with Jadzia . We do get times when we can out somewhere without Jadzia and times Ken has Jadzia and I get to go by myself or out with some of my friends .
I'd like to have at least a day of having Jadzia in daycare but even with 11 weeks of subsidized daycare we haven't been able to afford to do it thanks to the bills *sigh*
I'd love to work but most jobs I'm qualified are full time only and the job would just be paying for the childcare and night job would have me whacked for the next day .
Apart from the bills and depression we are holding on and we know alot of other friends that are doing it tougher than us .