"And fate carries an executioner's axe."

Dec 11, 2006 12:36

I've been wanting to lay out my thoughts about how I like my journal to function, and the way I would like to deal with problems (should they ever arise), just so that all my LJ friends have an idea of how they can expect me to behave. I'd normally find it awfully pompous and overly self-important to have a "friending policy" - it's really not my ( Read more... )

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suitboyskin December 12 2006, 20:15:09 UTC
As one of the more vocal assailants of the gentleman in question I feel compelled to weigh in here. If I offended you by my lashing out at him then I am sorry for that as I don't like sowing discourse among my friends online or RL.

However, I will say, in my defense, that I've been consitant towards him from the get-go. I don't recall exactly what he did to earn my ire (he's a fairly trivial presence in my life) but I've been perfectly clear that I dislike him from that time on. Yes, I can be rude and abbrasive from time to timeas Swash can attest to. I'm not, however, unresponsive to the idea that people and my opinions of them can change nor am I fickle in my friendship or animosity. I could at some point warm up to the fellow, it would just take a pretty significant incident for me to actualy friend him just like it would take an equally significant incident for me to de-friend you.

Not to invalidate your concerns or your feelings that perhaps he was verbally attacked too visciously. As one of the people who makes the comments that you seem to be discussing I felt compelled to put in my $.02 and explain myself lest unwanted drama or bad blood develop.

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