SURE-FIRE WAY YOU CAN TELL SOMEONE HAS NEVER BEEN IN LOVE
ANSWER: THEY ENTER A NEW RELATIONSHIP ALREADY TELLING THE NEW PERSON "I LOVE YOU"
IF A PERSON HAS EVER BEEN IN LOVE, THEY WOULD KNOW BETTER THAN TO SAY I LOVE U TO THEIR NEW PARTNER SO QUICKLY.
I DID NOT WITNESS THE WORDS FIRST-HAND. SOMEONE TOLD ME ABOUT IT. BUT YEAH. IT WAS UNEXPECTED. SINCE THOSE WORDS (WHICH WERE SPOKEN NOT EVEN 4 AND A HALF MONTHS AFTER THEY WERE LAST SAID TO ME) WOULD NOT HAVE BEEN SAID IF THE PERSON HAD EVER BEEN IN LOVE.
I OBVIOUSLY HAVE NOT TOLD ANYONE "I LOVE YOU." CUZ WHEN U'VE ACTUALLY BEEN IN LOVE, U LEARN THAT THOSE WORDS ARE NOT SOMETHING TO BE SAID SO CASUALLY AND QUICKLY.
I KNOW THAT IN THE BEGINNING THEY WERE SAID TO ME EVEN AND I RESPONDED THE SAME BUT THAT WAS BEFORE I HAD EVER BEEN IN LOVE. AND YOU KNOW, CUZ IT WAS SAID FROM EVEN BEFORE WE STARTED GOING OUT, I NEVER KNEW WHEN HE WAS ACTUALLY "IN LOVE" WITH ME SINCE HE ALWAYS HAD SAID HE LOVED ME.
BUT I GUESS IT DIDN'T MATTER CUZ HE NEVER WAS "IN LOVE." MAYBE HE LOVED ME IN SOME SENSE OF THE WORD. LIKE A FRIEND OR BEST FRIEND OR FAMILY MEMBER. BUT NOT "IN LOVE." IT'S TOO BAD HE DIDN'T LET ME KNOW THIS UNTIL AFTER WE SPENT A YEAR AND A HALF TOGETHER.
ALL THOSE TIMES I TRIED TO BREAK UP WITH HIM CUZ I DIDN'T THINK HE LOVED ME, HE NEVER LET ME. I SHOULD HAVE JUST WENT WITH MY FEELINGS.
OH WELL. I JUST THINK IT'S SILLY THAT HE STILL SAYS "I LOVE YOU" SO CASUALLY. BUT THEN AGAIN HE'S NEVER BEEN IN LOVE SO HE WOULDN'T UNDERSTAND. IDK, IF HE DIDN'T FALL IN LOVE AFTER A YEAR AND A HALF, I DON'T THINK HE'S CAPABLE OF FALLING COMPLETELY IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE. UNCONDITIONALLY.
HE TOLD ME THAT ONLY LOVE FOR UR FAMILY IS UNCONDITIONAL. BUT THAT TOO IS BECUZ HE'S NEVER BEEN IN LOVE SO HE DOESN'T UNDERSTAND.
THE NEW GF THING IS FINE. I MEAN I MOVED ON TOO. THE "I LOVE YOU" THING WAS JUST THE LAST PIECE OF EVIDENCE TO SHOW ME THAT THIS REALLY IS HOW IT SHOULD HAVE ENDED SINCE AFTER A YEAR AND A HALF HE STILL WASN'T IN LOVE WITH ME EVEN THOUGH I WAS WILLING TO DO NETHING TO MAKE THINGS WORK. IN THE END IF A PERSON REALLY LOVES U, THEY ARE WILLING TO WORK THINGS OUT. IT JUST WASN'T SO.
IF A PERSON HAS EVER BEEN IN LOVE, THEY WOULD KNOW BETTER THAN TO SAY I LOVE U TO THEIR NEW PARTNER SO QUICKLY.
I DID NOT WITNESS THE WORDS FIRST-HAND. SOMEONE TOLD ME ABOUT IT. BUT YEAH. IT WAS UNEXPECTED. SINCE THOSE WORDS (WHICH WERE SPOKEN NOT EVEN 4 AND A HALF MONTHS AFTER THEY WERE LAST SAID TO ME) WOULD NOT HAVE BEEN SAID IF THE PERSON HAD EVER BEEN IN LOVE.
I OBVIOUSLY HAVE NOT TOLD ANYONE "I LOVE YOU." CUZ WHEN U'VE ACTUALLY BEEN IN LOVE, U LEARN THAT THOSE WORDS ARE NOT SOMETHING TO BE SAID SO CASUALLY AND QUICKLY.
I KNOW THAT IN THE BEGINNING THEY WERE SAID TO ME EVEN AND I RESPONDED THE SAME BUT THAT WAS BEFORE I HAD EVER BEEN IN LOVE. AND YOU KNOW, CUZ IT WAS SAID FROM EVEN BEFORE WE STARTED GOING OUT, I NEVER KNEW WHEN HE WAS ACTUALLY "IN LOVE" WITH ME SINCE HE ALWAYS HAD SAID HE LOVED ME.
BUT I GUESS IT DIDN'T MATTER CUZ HE NEVER WAS "IN LOVE." MAYBE HE LOVED ME IN SOME SENSE OF THE WORD. LIKE A FRIEND OR BEST FRIEND OR FAMILY MEMBER. BUT NOT "IN LOVE." IT'S TOO BAD HE DIDN'T LET ME KNOW THIS UNTIL AFTER WE SPENT A YEAR AND A HALF TOGETHER.
ALL THOSE TIMES I TRIED TO BREAK UP WITH HIM CUZ I DIDN'T THINK HE LOVED ME, HE NEVER LET ME. I SHOULD HAVE JUST WENT WITH MY FEELINGS.
OH WELL. I JUST THINK IT'S SILLY THAT HE STILL SAYS "I LOVE YOU" SO CASUALLY. BUT THEN AGAIN HE'S NEVER BEEN IN LOVE SO HE WOULDN'T UNDERSTAND. IDK, IF HE DIDN'T FALL IN LOVE AFTER A YEAR AND A HALF, I DON'T THINK HE'S CAPABLE OF FALLING COMPLETELY IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE. UNCONDITIONALLY.
HE TOLD ME THAT ONLY LOVE FOR UR FAMILY IS UNCONDITIONAL. BUT THAT TOO IS BECUZ HE'S NEVER BEEN IN LOVE SO HE DOESN'T UNDERSTAND.
THE NEW GF THING IS FINE. I MEAN I MOVED ON TOO. THE "I LOVE YOU" THING WAS JUST THE LAST PIECE OF EVIDENCE TO SHOW ME THAT THIS REALLY IS HOW IT SHOULD HAVE ENDED SINCE AFTER A YEAR AND A HALF HE STILL WASN'T IN LOVE WITH ME EVEN THOUGH I WAS WILLING TO DO NETHING TO MAKE THINGS WORK. IN THE END IF A PERSON REALLY LOVES U, THEY ARE WILLING TO WORK THINGS OUT. IT JUST WASN'T SO.