haha - I think all these notions of "soulmate" and "perfect fit" or "THE one" to be rather misleading and frankly dangerous.
we end up abdicating responsibility for our laziness in putting effort, time and sacrifice into a relationship - when all these notions subliminally (and some movies so dramatically) seem to tell us that NO effort is required for "the soulmate" etc etc ..
so when things go wrong, we just simply "oh, if it is so difficult, den must be not THE ONE lor ..." den out it gets tossed out of the window.
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we end up abdicating responsibility for our laziness in putting effort, time and sacrifice into a relationship - when all these notions subliminally (and some movies so dramatically) seem to tell us that NO effort is required for "the soulmate" etc etc ..
so when things go wrong, we just simply "oh, if it is so difficult, den must be not THE ONE lor ..." den out it gets tossed out of the window.
*bleah*
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often we choose to look for the easy way out... and that is to give up.
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