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Oct 12, 2010 12:50



how would you define him / her as your soul mate?


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seaweeds October 12 2010, 08:31:48 UTC
haha - I think all these notions of "soulmate" and "perfect fit" or "THE one" to be rather misleading and frankly dangerous.

we end up abdicating responsibility for our laziness in putting effort, time and sacrifice into a relationship - when all these notions subliminally (and some movies so dramatically) seem to tell us that NO effort is required for "the soulmate" etc etc ..

so when things go wrong, we just simply "oh, if it is so difficult, den must be not THE ONE lor ..." den out it gets tossed out of the window.

*bleah*

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mel_ploth October 13 2010, 03:28:23 UTC
precisely. because one has yet to put in the effort in doing so - doing a fair share; a part in the relationship.

often we choose to look for the easy way out... and that is to give up.

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