too ready to grow up?
i was thinking about things, like always and then what about traveling, it's something i really love to do. i want to see the world, experience everything and see how others live, learn other cultures, etc
but, i think, should i wait till i'm finacially stable to do so, or should i just wing it like i have going to the bahamas, and hilton head, and chicago? will i get anywhere if i wait for that special job that offers financial security, and will give me the ability to travel and see all of the world. will i ever even find that job, and then when i do will i be so preoccupied with it that i won't have time to travel and do the things i want, then the husband and kids come along, and i have them to support and take care of. or instead of traveling at this age, while i have freedoms and time, and no worries, should i be saving the money for my kids college tuition, the kids that aren't even born yet? i have these conflicts all the time, becuase i'm a saver, and i think about finaces and establlishing good credit and whatever else when i shoulod 'get my kicks while i'm still young enough to get them' so i guess that's what i'm going to do, i want to live my life for now instead of worrying about the future cause i don't want to look back, and all of my 20 years been spent doing nothing that i want to actually be doing, just school and work, with no play. so anyone up for saving for a vacation with me? i'm thinking mexico, somewhere, or nyc, or europe somewhere, which could be really expensive, but we could stay in hostles and things, i really enjoy researching thoes things, the cheapest deals and whatever.
but, i think, should i wait till i'm finacially stable to do so, or should i just wing it like i have going to the bahamas, and hilton head, and chicago? will i get anywhere if i wait for that special job that offers financial security, and will give me the ability to travel and see all of the world. will i ever even find that job, and then when i do will i be so preoccupied with it that i won't have time to travel and do the things i want, then the husband and kids come along, and i have them to support and take care of. or instead of traveling at this age, while i have freedoms and time, and no worries, should i be saving the money for my kids college tuition, the kids that aren't even born yet? i have these conflicts all the time, becuase i'm a saver, and i think about finaces and establlishing good credit and whatever else when i shoulod 'get my kicks while i'm still young enough to get them' so i guess that's what i'm going to do, i want to live my life for now instead of worrying about the future cause i don't want to look back, and all of my 20 years been spent doing nothing that i want to actually be doing, just school and work, with no play. so anyone up for saving for a vacation with me? i'm thinking mexico, somewhere, or nyc, or europe somewhere, which could be really expensive, but we could stay in hostles and things, i really enjoy researching thoes things, the cheapest deals and whatever.