Valentine's Musings...
So another Valentine’s Day has come and gone and try as I might to ignore it, it is slapped in your face so often it is impossible to do so. This time last year I was but a few days out of “the breakup” and the world was still a bit of a blur. The year has been almost totally uneventful romantically. There are many reasons for that. Mostly due to ( Read more... )
Being 'older' is about as relevant to me as being 'humanoid', not very.
Everyone keeps telling me, "you can't help who you fall in love with," and I guess to a very great degree that's true. But it'd be foolish to deny that life experience makes up a rgeat part of a personality, and that personality is what we really fall in love with (rather than in 'lust' with).
I think age is largely irrelevant to friendship. And if you're meeting people with similar interests / passions / goals, then it's odds on you'll make freinds.
As for the old 'companionship' i.e. 'partner', thing, well, as we both know, that's just something that tends to come along, and you can look or not look, but it will present itself as an opportunity, and if you're open to it, it can be taken (or ignored) as you see fit at the time :)
Valentines day is rubbish. Bit like most other manufactured 'celebrations'. But yeah, it can be hard to ignore, and in that sense it does trigger some thinking :)
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