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So yeah, I got banned from blairwaldorfs & leighton_fans. Can you imagine?
I'm so sick of that shit. So I decided to tell everyone a story about my relationship with revertigo (awww, sounds romantic, doesn't it?).
Anyway, when I was still on my previous account, there was a time when it was Leighton's/Blair's fans vs Blake's/Serena's ones. And in most of the cases, Blake's won, because they were in majority. So Leighton's fans tried to stick to each other etc. I posted some Leighton related picspam, revertigo commented on it, and I asked her if I could add her, because she was a Leighton supporter too and I was still dumb and naive. Anyway, she said smth like "yeah, sure, I'll add you too". I added her, but she never added me back. Then, in a while, she did. But only like for a couple of days. We still communicated through communities though. Then I found some awesome gifs by fivewhatfive and decided to add her. She immediately added me back and even commented on a couple of my entries.
When revertigo posted some picspam, I left a comment saying smth like 'hey, girl, i thought i'd let you know. it's me on my new account, you added me back for a while, so yeah; add me back if you want ;)'. She screened my comment in a couple of hours. And the same day fivewhatfive (who appeared to be her bff on lj at least) removed me too without another word.
After a couple of months of her completely ignoring me in communities, and even deleting my posts (and then reposting them herself), I pm'ed her, trying to figure out whether I had done something that insulted her or anything. Kinda retold her this story. You know what she answered? "No tension. Everything's fine". You know when everything's not fine, when you write three paragraphs and get two sentenses in reply. Anyway, I decided to just let it be. If she hates me, and can't even explain why (some of her ex-friends told me, that she constantly repeated in her lj that she wants to be the only & the biggest Leighton's fan or smth, but that's just lame seeing as I'm far from being even close to that, so no threat from me even if that's the case), then it is not any of my problems.
Everything seemed fine for some time. I posted a couple of Leighton pics from Sebastian's birthday @ blairwaldorfs. Some people even replied to it. But then it got deleted. I pm'ed revertigo. She said she had nothing to do with it, but that she'd check with her mods. Anyway, apparently nothing with Sebastian "was allowed" there. Why? Because the mods hate him. I asked why wasn't it in the rules then? She said she'd put it in (still nothing in the rules btw). But after that A LOT of people (even she herself) posted Leighton's pics with Sebastian, and guess what? Their posts weren't removed. Double standards anyone?
Then there was that story about those exclusive pics, elitism in the fandom and blah blah blah. So I saw some nice icon @ wontfindlove (Molly) and asked her where was the original picture from. She explained that her and few others were trying to get those pics from the photographer or smth, and that they're paying for them etc. And also that they'd share the moment they have bigger version of them. I was like: 'oh, well, ok. nice. sorry i bothered". What irked me though wasn't the fact that they don't share, but that they put those exclusives in their userpics as if showing how special they are and actually provoking all those questions.
Anyway, I forgot about that. Then the whole Kim/whoreinstead drama began. I specifically told Kim to leave me out of it, because I didn't want to do anything with all those dramas anymore, and I just wanted to stay in blairwaldorfs and get my daily dose of Leighton. I don't know how their conflict turned out btw.
But yesterday, revertigo posted those pics @ blairwaldorfs (ouutakes from Cosmo shoot) with fake moustache on Leighton, pirate hats, "revertigo" written all over her etc with a comment: "and you said we were selfish" or smth. I commented with: "Wow, this is new level of...... whatever we see here. I thought people were okay with you not sharing, why sneering at us now?". The reason I left that comment was because it looked like a mockery, and I think people are actually okay with her not sharing (seeing as I am ok with that) as long as she doesn't rub it in our faces (which she does, but we learnt how to ignore it). Anyway, her and my comments:
(her) "Why are you still here".
(me) "Because I love Leighton and like to see her pics/news/whatever in my flist"
(her) "You don't need a community for that, and we certainly don't need you here"
(me) "Is there a reason you're so rude to me?" + smth else which I can't remember
(her) blah blah blah some shit I don't remember (even though she said "since you can read people's minds and inside of my inbox" rofl no idea what she was talking about) + "I ain't putting up with that shit. Bye". And when I said that I liked this community she said: "The feeling's not mutual". Wtf?
And she banned me. Which made me devastated, because I loved that community. It was the only one I constantly read and checked in the whole lj. I barely even commented there.
Anyway, we exchanged some pm's, but she didn't change her decision. Although even then I never insulted her, explained to her that I am not complaining about her exclusive club or anything. That I am not the one who steals pics, post them on another sites and put their tags on it (I don't even know html ffs or own any Leighton-related sites). And that all I want is to enjoy her pics with the rest of her fans. Well, she doesn't really care.
I asked our mutual friend to ask her to please add me back. You know what she said? That it wasn't only hers decision, meaning that some other mods wanted me to go.
Now, let's look who's mod @ blairwaldorfs:
fivewhatfive (didn't have problems with her), lokiyan (read & comment her fanfics from time to time, no problems), p_e_p_a (meet sometimes in Leighton related posts and chat, no problems), pealingthunder (have no idea who she is), pitycard (same), revertigo, room4602 (only once commented on her icons, no problems), whoreinstead (I don't really know, but the only time we had some small conflict wasn't even Leighton related and it was really small and a long time ago, so...).
LMFAO I guess revertigo finally found a reason to get rid of me.
Btw, a couple of people pm'ed me, wondering why my comment @ blairwaldorfs got deleted, because what I said there was truth.
And also - this is pretty hilarious - I know for sure that revertigo tried to make some people who were also friends with her to remove me. So much for "I can't tell people who to be friends with", right? LMAO
I know some of you are friends with her. I'm not asking you to take sides! Not at all. I'm just sick of that irrational hatred towards me. And of all that shit. So I decided to tell this story.
I'm not locking this post. If you have something to say or I said something wrong - speak up, Riley. But the facts speak for themselves.
I'm so sick of that shit. So I decided to tell everyone a story about my relationship with revertigo (awww, sounds romantic, doesn't it?).
Anyway, when I was still on my previous account, there was a time when it was Leighton's/Blair's fans vs Blake's/Serena's ones. And in most of the cases, Blake's won, because they were in majority. So Leighton's fans tried to stick to each other etc. I posted some Leighton related picspam, revertigo commented on it, and I asked her if I could add her, because she was a Leighton supporter too and I was still dumb and naive. Anyway, she said smth like "yeah, sure, I'll add you too". I added her, but she never added me back. Then, in a while, she did. But only like for a couple of days. We still communicated through communities though. Then I found some awesome gifs by fivewhatfive and decided to add her. She immediately added me back and even commented on a couple of my entries.
When revertigo posted some picspam, I left a comment saying smth like 'hey, girl, i thought i'd let you know. it's me on my new account, you added me back for a while, so yeah; add me back if you want ;)'. She screened my comment in a couple of hours. And the same day fivewhatfive (who appeared to be her bff on lj at least) removed me too without another word.
After a couple of months of her completely ignoring me in communities, and even deleting my posts (and then reposting them herself), I pm'ed her, trying to figure out whether I had done something that insulted her or anything. Kinda retold her this story. You know what she answered? "No tension. Everything's fine". You know when everything's not fine, when you write three paragraphs and get two sentenses in reply. Anyway, I decided to just let it be. If she hates me, and can't even explain why (some of her ex-friends told me, that she constantly repeated in her lj that she wants to be the only & the biggest Leighton's fan or smth, but that's just lame seeing as I'm far from being even close to that, so no threat from me even if that's the case), then it is not any of my problems.
Everything seemed fine for some time. I posted a couple of Leighton pics from Sebastian's birthday @ blairwaldorfs. Some people even replied to it. But then it got deleted. I pm'ed revertigo. She said she had nothing to do with it, but that she'd check with her mods. Anyway, apparently nothing with Sebastian "was allowed" there. Why? Because the mods hate him. I asked why wasn't it in the rules then? She said she'd put it in (still nothing in the rules btw). But after that A LOT of people (even she herself) posted Leighton's pics with Sebastian, and guess what? Their posts weren't removed. Double standards anyone?
Then there was that story about those exclusive pics, elitism in the fandom and blah blah blah. So I saw some nice icon @ wontfindlove (Molly) and asked her where was the original picture from. She explained that her and few others were trying to get those pics from the photographer or smth, and that they're paying for them etc. And also that they'd share the moment they have bigger version of them. I was like: 'oh, well, ok. nice. sorry i bothered". What irked me though wasn't the fact that they don't share, but that they put those exclusives in their userpics as if showing how special they are and actually provoking all those questions.
Anyway, I forgot about that. Then the whole Kim/whoreinstead drama began. I specifically told Kim to leave me out of it, because I didn't want to do anything with all those dramas anymore, and I just wanted to stay in blairwaldorfs and get my daily dose of Leighton. I don't know how their conflict turned out btw.
But yesterday, revertigo posted those pics @ blairwaldorfs (ouutakes from Cosmo shoot) with fake moustache on Leighton, pirate hats, "revertigo" written all over her etc with a comment: "and you said we were selfish" or smth. I commented with: "Wow, this is new level of...... whatever we see here. I thought people were okay with you not sharing, why sneering at us now?". The reason I left that comment was because it looked like a mockery, and I think people are actually okay with her not sharing (seeing as I am ok with that) as long as she doesn't rub it in our faces (which she does, but we learnt how to ignore it). Anyway, her and my comments:
(her) "Why are you still here".
(me) "Because I love Leighton and like to see her pics/news/whatever in my flist"
(her) "You don't need a community for that, and we certainly don't need you here"
(me) "Is there a reason you're so rude to me?" + smth else which I can't remember
(her) blah blah blah some shit I don't remember (even though she said "since you can read people's minds and inside of my inbox" rofl no idea what she was talking about) + "I ain't putting up with that shit. Bye". And when I said that I liked this community she said: "The feeling's not mutual". Wtf?
And she banned me. Which made me devastated, because I loved that community. It was the only one I constantly read and checked in the whole lj. I barely even commented there.
Anyway, we exchanged some pm's, but she didn't change her decision. Although even then I never insulted her, explained to her that I am not complaining about her exclusive club or anything. That I am not the one who steals pics, post them on another sites and put their tags on it (I don't even know html ffs or own any Leighton-related sites). And that all I want is to enjoy her pics with the rest of her fans. Well, she doesn't really care.
I asked our mutual friend to ask her to please add me back. You know what she said? That it wasn't only hers decision, meaning that some other mods wanted me to go.
Now, let's look who's mod @ blairwaldorfs:
fivewhatfive (didn't have problems with her), lokiyan (read & comment her fanfics from time to time, no problems), p_e_p_a (meet sometimes in Leighton related posts and chat, no problems), pealingthunder (have no idea who she is), pitycard (same), revertigo, room4602 (only once commented on her icons, no problems), whoreinstead (I don't really know, but the only time we had some small conflict wasn't even Leighton related and it was really small and a long time ago, so...).
LMFAO I guess revertigo finally found a reason to get rid of me.
Btw, a couple of people pm'ed me, wondering why my comment @ blairwaldorfs got deleted, because what I said there was truth.
And also - this is pretty hilarious - I know for sure that revertigo tried to make some people who were also friends with her to remove me. So much for "I can't tell people who to be friends with", right? LMAO
I know some of you are friends with her. I'm not asking you to take sides! Not at all. I'm just sick of that irrational hatred towards me. And of all that shit. So I decided to tell this story.
I'm not locking this post. If you have something to say or I said something wrong - speak up, Riley. But the facts speak for themselves.