the choice
do i take financial help from the father who has never offered in past or do i go it alone even though i'm broke. this is in regards to student loans.
positive: obviously, less broke.
negative: he'll have something to hold over me when he puts his guilt trip on. granted it's taken him 5+ years to even offer to help -- this being only after i discovered he had been telling my younger brother that he was helping me with loans (as another guilt trip for him) when he said he'd wanted to get an apartment.
positive: obviously, less broke.
negative: he'll have something to hold over me when he puts his guilt trip on. granted it's taken him 5+ years to even offer to help -- this being only after i discovered he had been telling my younger brother that he was helping me with loans (as another guilt trip for him) when he said he'd wanted to get an apartment.