I just got home from dropping off my ex-girlfriend back at her house. We just chilled at my house and talked about whatever and watched a few movies
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I'm not sure how to add you as a friend yet. I haven't taken the time to figure this site out I am just concerned about how you are. It sounds like you're starting to have some realizations. I'm glad for that. If I may say, (and I guess you can't stop me right now can ya?) I think that you are the type of person that has always needed that something more out of a relationship. You need someone with the same type of goals as you've got and someone who is as devoted as you are to the relationship that you're in. Those people Phil, the kind that you need. Well..They're out there. You WILL find someone who fits the person inside of you. Shandi can be the nicest person ever but if you guys are on different levels then it isn't going to work. Not yet. And then, who knows when? How long are you willing to wait to find out if she's REALLY ready to settle down? I'm not happy with her. I told her not to hurt you. She did. I kinda felt it before it happened. Don't ask me how but I just had this assumptious feeling. I know we don't know each other on a great personal level but I think we've known each other long enough and have shared enough that I feel comfortable enough saying you'rea great guy and you deserve the best there is out there and someone who wants the same types of things you want and you shouldn't stop until you get it. Be strong and know there are people out there routing for you! You're a good friend and I hope everything goes well as far as the getting over it part. Sorry, hope I wasn't too blunt but I want you to know I'm here and I don't know if you know that I'm serious but I am and I mean it. Talk to me anytime. Okay?
First of all, to add me a friend click on the icon the is right beside mediczj (not the actual highlighted name) and then you will see my userinfo page. On that page there is a box with that same icon and a + (plus) sign. Click that to add me to your friends list.
Thank you for your words of encouragement. I understand what you are saying and really it does make sense but there is still a piece of me that says "do whatever it takes to get back with her". I know that we both have different outlooks at this time and I shouldn't, however.
You were not too blunt, Thank you once again, --Phil
Sorry, hope I wasn't too blunt but I want you to know I'm here and I don't know if you know that I'm serious but I am and I mean it. Talk to me anytime. Okay?
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First of all, to add me a friend click on the icon the is right beside mediczj (not the actual highlighted name) and then you will see my userinfo page. On that page there is a box with that same icon and a + (plus) sign. Click that to add me to your friends list.
Thank you for your words of encouragement. I understand what you are saying and really it does make sense but there is still a piece of me that says "do whatever it takes to get back with her". I know that we both have different outlooks at this time and I shouldn't, however.
You were not too blunt,
Thank you once again,
--Phil
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