I have heard many sides of this story, and here is how I see it.
One of you two are lying, either he or you. Cheating is a very big accusation, and I know some of your tendencies to be a lil extrafriendly, so I believe it. and for someone to be threatened with the cops, that has to be more then one call. So you both are under scrutiny. You kept asking about his number, trying to get him to call you, wanting to talk to him, and ect.; It doesn't look like you really want to stay away from this 'horrible stalker' ex if you are trying to get his phone number or wanting to say things to him. I have exs myself, but I don't obsess if they are in the same room or talking to my friends. Your ex is back, he's moved on, and before you were upset that he was stalking you and he was overding things, and now all you want to do is get his number and know exactly what is going on in his life. Maybe its best if you let what is going on in his life go. Just let it past, how are you going to let a guy, let alone an ex get between you and your best friend. She was watching out for her friend and helping you by not letting things between you and him get too friendly again. Why all the drama? I just got out of a dramatic friendship group, don't make my new friends become dramatic... -Unknown P.S. Don't bother trying to figure out who I am.
Re: ThoughtsmeathespianJanuary 25 2005, 19:18:27 UTC
Dear Anonymous, With all of your brash comments, I think you should have the nerve to say who you are. If you are too chicken-shit to reveal yourself, I don't think you have any right in judging me or my decisions. As for your belief that I would actually cheat on someone I cared about, you need to take a closer look cause you don't know shit. Yes, I tend to be flirtatious, and a little overzealous sometimes, but I never cross that line. Being the subject of cheating boyfriends before, I know the pain that results from such betrayal, and I would die before I inflicted it on anyone else. So fuck you. As for the number, all I wanted to do was even things out between us. I guess in my stupid, messed up little world, I thought if we talked things out, and laid them in the open (which you apparently seem too much of a coward to do) that maybe he wouldn't have so much ill will towards me. Everyone makes mistakes. I just hoped that if I smoothed things over he wouldn't be out to hurt me or ruin whatever reputation I have. I don't want his life, I just don't want him ruining mine. I have a once-in-a-lifetime thing with Daniel, and unlike some people who have to go around hiding themselves and criticizing others, I am happy. And I am sorry, but there is no best friend for anyone to get in the way of. Maybe people should let me worry about what is going on with me. And friends support each other, not stab them in the back multiple times. The drama was an outlet for emotions. That is what this is here for. If you have a problem with that, don't read it. I am sorry if this is too insulting, but I have a problem with people who take it upon themselves to put others down and accuse them of things like cheating when they don't even have the guts to stand behind there words as a person. Frankly I have no respect for your opinion. Try adding a face, and then I might listen, but as of now, no go. And I have some idea of who it is. You see, I never wrote that I wanted his number, only three people knew that. ^_^ You let you tongue slip,messy messy you. See you at school. Yours Truly, Rebecca
One of you two are lying, either he or you. Cheating is a very big accusation, and I know some of your tendencies to be a lil extrafriendly, so I believe it. and for someone to be threatened with the cops, that has to be more then one call. So you both are under scrutiny. You kept asking about his number, trying to get him to call you, wanting to talk to him, and ect.; It doesn't look like you really want to stay away from this 'horrible stalker' ex if you are trying to get his phone number or wanting to say things to him. I have exs myself, but I don't obsess if they are in the same room or talking to my friends. Your ex is back, he's moved on, and before you were upset that he was stalking you and he was overding things, and now all you want to do is get his number and know exactly what is going on in his life. Maybe its best if you let what is going on in his life go. Just let it past, how are you going to let a guy, let alone an ex get between you and your best friend. She was watching out for her friend and helping you by not letting things between you and him get too friendly again. Why all the drama? I just got out of a dramatic friendship group, don't make my new friends become dramatic...
-Unknown
P.S. Don't bother trying to figure out who I am.
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With all of your brash comments, I think you should have the nerve to say who you are. If you are too chicken-shit to reveal yourself, I don't think you have any right in judging me or my decisions. As for your belief that I would actually cheat on someone I cared about, you need to take a closer look cause you don't know shit. Yes, I tend to be flirtatious, and a little overzealous sometimes, but I never cross that line. Being the subject of cheating boyfriends before, I know the pain that results from such betrayal, and I would die before I inflicted it on anyone else. So fuck you.
As for the number, all I wanted to do was even things out between us. I guess in my stupid, messed up little world, I thought if we talked things out, and laid them in the open (which you apparently seem too much of a coward to do) that maybe he wouldn't have so much ill will towards me. Everyone makes mistakes. I just hoped that if I smoothed things over he wouldn't be out to hurt me or ruin whatever reputation I have. I don't want his life, I just don't want him ruining mine. I have a once-in-a-lifetime thing with Daniel, and unlike some people who have to go around hiding themselves and criticizing others, I am happy. And I am sorry, but there is no best friend for anyone to get in the way of. Maybe people should let me worry about what is going on with me. And friends support each other, not stab them in the back multiple times. The drama was an outlet for emotions. That is what this is here for. If you have a problem with that, don't read it. I am sorry if this is too insulting, but I have a problem with people who take it upon themselves to put others down and accuse them of things like cheating when they don't even have the guts to stand behind there words as a person. Frankly I have no respect for your opinion. Try adding a face, and then I might listen, but as of now, no go. And I have some idea of who it is. You see, I never wrote that I wanted his number, only three people knew that. ^_^ You let you tongue slip,messy messy you. See you at school.
Yours Truly,
Rebecca
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