Feb 09, 2006 16:23
I realize that when people get significant others, then their relationship with friends sometimes changes. But what are you supposed to do when that person not only doesn't realize how they've changed, or they do realize it yet don't care? It's frustrating--you shouldn't allow your other friendships to slip away simply because you have a new person in the picture. And while one may argue that it's not because of this new relationship, I beg to differ. It's amazing how different some people become, and what's more amazing is how they don't notice how they've changed. However, if they don't care about a friendship falling away, then perhaps I shouldn't either. The only thing I'm positive about is that I thought this high school drama ended when you left high school. I didn't like it then, I chose not to get involved with it then, and I'm determined not to get too wrapped up in it now. It's a little difficult when the other party is apparently too immature to just talk in person, rather than over the internet or what have you, but I'm done--no more high school drama for this girl. It's stupid, immature, and doesn't belong among adults. So I guess if the said person is willing to give up and let what once was quite a good friendship fall through the cracks, then I'm not going to bother trying to mend it. Have it your way--you win.