Damn it Mindy- SHUT YOUR MOUTH!
I HATE drama! I try to avoid drama....but sometimes it is unavoidable. This slight F&^# up happened when My best friend and I have boyfriends that are best friends. I really didn't think it was an issue at all....but I was wrong! There is a circle of yap! Trey and I are 100% honest with one another....but some people get upset if they don't hear things from their friends, but instead, they hear it from their girlfriend. I know I know thais doesn't make much sence, you get confused...and we now know how I wander around sometimes....and well screw up. I guess everyone screws up at some point in time.
So I was stuck right in the middle and I decided that I had to be a good friends and share info that isn't really mine to share with my friend. I then stressed aout for days....how to tell Trey what I had done. I felt like I did the right thing on the friend end but the wrong thing on the girlfriend end. So I wne to Chalmette the other day and Trey said....what did you say to him...and I told him ....but I didn't tell him that I had told Hope.
After nightmares the other night of me drowning etc. and a few panic attacks. I called Trey in the morning and said "I forsee out first fight coming VERY soon" he siad what is the matter, what happened. I told him what I had done, what I had told Hope. I was sobbing and saying how sorry I was and how wrong it was of me to say. He told me it was ok and he would take care of it. He would talk to hope about it.
I am shocked at how well he dealt with it. He was so level headed and in charge of the situation. I am glad I was honest and upfront about it. I love him so much and I didn't want to betray his trust. I am glad that that is over and I have learned my lesson.
So I was stuck right in the middle and I decided that I had to be a good friends and share info that isn't really mine to share with my friend. I then stressed aout for days....how to tell Trey what I had done. I felt like I did the right thing on the friend end but the wrong thing on the girlfriend end. So I wne to Chalmette the other day and Trey said....what did you say to him...and I told him ....but I didn't tell him that I had told Hope.
After nightmares the other night of me drowning etc. and a few panic attacks. I called Trey in the morning and said "I forsee out first fight coming VERY soon" he siad what is the matter, what happened. I told him what I had done, what I had told Hope. I was sobbing and saying how sorry I was and how wrong it was of me to say. He told me it was ok and he would take care of it. He would talk to hope about it.
I am shocked at how well he dealt with it. He was so level headed and in charge of the situation. I am glad I was honest and upfront about it. I love him so much and I didn't want to betray his trust. I am glad that that is over and I have learned my lesson.