Re: when the heart is wide open but the eyes are wide shut..hiphopheather76April 1 2010, 13:04:28 UTC
Hi Valeska, Why should there be a choice between the "slim girl who can't cook" versus the "less slim girl who can cook"? How about instead the "just-right (perfectly healthy) girl" who can cook healthy and tasty meals, and who actually does not have to brag about cooking abilities because she proves herself time after time-the one who knows when to really put in the effort and when to walk away? And this woman does not have to "diet" because she knows what foods and lifestyle habits are good for her as well as for her man. It's not the actual going to the clubs that I was referring to, because we all go dancing from time to time. I was merely referring to the fact that your chances for finding a long-term partner (whom you actually want to be with for that long) in one of these venues are slim to none-chances are you are not seeing the real person while in these places because he / she is just out for a "good-time", in one "altered" state or another. But again, just going dancing and drinking socially without getting plastered or stoned is not a bad thing. As for your coming "good time" this weekend, have fun, just don't be too offended if you happen to get funny looks while stumbling into church with swollen feet on this Easter Sunday, not to mention having to cook a big Easter feast :) Again, it's knowing ahead of time what is good / not so good for you so that you do not have to pay the price for doing the not-so good things too often! :):) Take care and have a good weekend.
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Why should there be a choice between the "slim girl who can't cook" versus the "less slim girl who can cook"? How about instead the "just-right (perfectly healthy) girl" who can cook healthy and tasty meals, and who actually does not have to brag about cooking abilities because she proves herself time after time-the one who knows when to really put in the effort and when to walk away? And this woman does not have to "diet" because she knows what foods and lifestyle habits are good for her as well as for her man. It's not the actual going to the clubs that I was referring to, because we all go dancing from time to time. I was merely referring to the fact that your chances for finding a long-term partner (whom you actually want to be with for that long) in one of these venues are slim to none-chances are you are not seeing the real person while in these places because he / she is just out for a "good-time", in one "altered" state or another. But again, just going dancing and drinking socially without getting plastered or stoned is not a bad thing. As for your coming "good time" this weekend, have fun, just don't be too offended if you happen to get funny looks while stumbling into church with swollen feet on this Easter Sunday, not to mention having to cook a big Easter feast :) Again, it's knowing ahead of time what is good / not so good for you so that you do not have to pay the price for doing the not-so good things too often! :):) Take care and have a good weekend.
Best,
Heather
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