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[mctira]

I can't stand being away from Jeff. It was ok when we could talk for a few hours every night on the phone, but now his dad says I can't call every night. Apparently Jeff has "too much to do". But I know Jeff, he works better when he's trying to fit too much stuff in anyway. His dad is such a control freak. I think he doesn't like me just because I

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[thors_warrior]

Maybe it is not a control freak thing. Maybe Jeff's father realizes that Jeff loves you and that you are pretty involved. He might be trying to slow down the clock because he doesn't feel Jeff is responsible, emotionally, physically, or finaicially, to be involved in the relationship. He might have visions of early marriage in his head and, although that is probably not what you intend, Jeff's father believes he is doing the right thing.
As for guys appearing wimpy. I don't agree on that. I borrow money and I return it. It is isn't the fact that he would borrow money but rather how far would it have to go. I mean there are a lot of expenses attached to college and there are continually more all the time. It is almost impossible to know the real cost of everything involved. Jeff probably doesn't want to borrow because he doesn't know how much it will be, how long it will take to get that amount, how much more is he going to need for unexpected occurances, and if he does get out there, gets a place and things go bad after a time will he be stuck in central Cali 450 somthing miles from home with no money and no way to repay his debts. I think that he is being a little cautious not over proud or whatever male typical thing that is or is not here or there to be going to or from from.... hmmmmm....yeah..... lol....time to go to bed...night night