I don't really get why people are making such a huge fuss about the whole situation behind 31. Most people have known about Eliza for a while so why start stuff about her now just cause Gerard was giving her some attention at a show. Most people have been wanting to know if they were going out for sure and now we know and some just seem really angry and disappointed about it. It was an awesome performance from what I saw from online, so it seems kinda shady that people are basing the entire show on Gerard and his alleged interaction with his girlfriend. God forbid he make eye contact with her and blow her a kiss during a performance...the nerve of some people. (lol)
And when was he sighted being 'all over her' exactly? Mostly likely after the show which should have no connection to the actual stage performance and therefore should not influence opinions about the show or Gerard as a person. Unless he was suppose to be doing a meet and greet with fans than I don't see why he has to hold back on the PDA just because he was in an area that fans were also occupying. And the way people are describing the situation makes it seems as though Gerard was doing it on purpose to cause a fuss with the fans, which I highly doubt. And what was he doing exactly that was so horrible? Probably giving her a few kisses and holding her close to him like most boyfriends do with their girlfriends. I highly doubt he was trying to get in her pants at the very moment and in such a public place. Would you all react the same way if it were Mikey/Alicia or Frank/Jamia, I doubt it.
I'm sorry if it seems as though I'm ranting but it just makes me sad that people care more about the guys with their girlfriends than the actual music. Your love for a band should be based upon the music, the performance, and the way the guys treat you when you meet them in person. Its fine to be a little curious about who so and so is dating, cause lets face it, they're all good-looking guys but there is a line. So please don't change your opinion about Gerard just because he is finally happy and has someone who seems to be part of the cause of that happiness and likes to show her off a little. Just put yourself in their shoes, you wouldn't want people to analyze your romantic relationships or be cruel to you and your partner for being happy and in love. Everyone deserves to be happy and everyone deserves to have someone special. I know a lot of fans want to feel as though they are the only ones connected to Gerard and the boys but the truth is there are thousands of us that listen to the music or have been touched or affected in a way through their message. So don't lose hope just yet, cause they are all still in it for us and only us and nothing is going to change that as long as the boys still play.
Once again sorry for the rant and this was in no way directed at anyone specific. I have just heard about the situation and fans reaction do it, not just here, but on a bunch of other sites as well and I just wanted to put in my two cents. Thanks
I agree with you completely. I've been lurking in this is community for a while now, always hoping that I wouldn't come across any more secrets about the band's personal life. I always end up feeling disappointed in the fandom when I read those kind of things (although I think it's alright to be a little curious, as long as everything isn't blown out of proportion). I have also seen the Halloween show where people have supposedly been accusing Gerard of paying more attention to Eliza than the fans, and I didn't notice anything of the sort. Them having girlfriends has not, in any way, affected the message of the band.
Let's keep our focus on the music from now on, please.
Thanks for your support to my argument. Yea, I know a girl that was also at the show and she said all she saw was them hugging. I didn't know hugging qualified as 'feeling her up' these days.
I was at the HOB show, and he didn't blow kisses to the balcony anyway, he blew kisses to the audience during Mama. Also, he didn't seem the least bit distracted to me. I've been to about 40 MCR shows now and I count that one as being one of the best. Also, I did see them hug, but then again, I also saw him hug about 60 other people that night. If their in a relationship, fine.. but I didn't see anything that would qualify as "definitive" proof. A bit sick of the girlfriend secrets myself, though.
no he blew a kiss to eliza in between a song when everyone was tuning up....there was a lot going on and it was pretty quick so most people might have missed it
And when was he sighted being 'all over her' exactly? Mostly likely after the show which should have no connection to the actual stage performance and therefore should not influence opinions about the show or Gerard as a person. Unless he was suppose to be doing a meet and greet with fans than I don't see why he has to hold back on the PDA just because he was in an area that fans were also occupying. And the way people are describing the situation makes it seems as though Gerard was doing it on purpose to cause a fuss with the fans, which I highly doubt. And what was he doing exactly that was so horrible? Probably giving her a few kisses and holding her close to him like most boyfriends do with their girlfriends. I highly doubt he was trying to get in her pants at the very moment and in such a public place. Would you all react the same way if it were Mikey/Alicia or Frank/Jamia, I doubt it.
I'm sorry if it seems as though I'm ranting but it just makes me sad that people care more about the guys with their girlfriends than the actual music. Your love for a band should be based upon the music, the performance, and the way the guys treat you when you meet them in person. Its fine to be a little curious about who so and so is dating, cause lets face it, they're all good-looking guys but there is a line. So please don't change your opinion about Gerard just because he is finally happy and has someone who seems to be part of the cause of that happiness and likes to show her off a little. Just put yourself in their shoes, you wouldn't want people to analyze your romantic relationships or be cruel to you and your partner for being happy and in love. Everyone deserves to be happy and everyone deserves to have someone special. I know a lot of fans want to feel as though they are the only ones connected to Gerard and the boys but the truth is there are thousands of us that listen to the music or have been touched or affected in a way through their message. So don't lose hope just yet, cause they are all still in it for us and only us and nothing is going to change that as long as the boys still play.
Once again sorry for the rant and this was in no way directed at anyone specific. I have just heard about the situation and fans reaction do it, not just here, but on a bunch of other sites as well and I just wanted to put in my two cents. Thanks
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YOU ARE MY HERO.
*Bows down to you*
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I was going to come unglued if I saw anybody else take issue with them.
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Let's keep our focus on the music from now on, please.
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Oh, yeah. Hugging totally qualifies as 'feeling her up'. *eye roll*
People are dumb. :D
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i'm unglued!
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