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Feb 02, 2007 23:34

I really dislike when people complain about things.

One thing in particular is how insensitive people are to my current relationship situation. I never see Andrew, I'm sorry but getting to see someone for 1 month and then barely seeing them for the next 3 does not constitute seeing them. So I really don't like it when people complain about me and him and that's all we do is hang out or whatever because it isn't true. And I also do not like hearing people complain that they can't see someone for like a week or a matter of days, bc it's a week or a few days. Try going without seeing someone for 3 weeks or 4 weeks and the only contact you have is the phone...and then complain. So don't give me a hard time if I want to spend a month with him...bc I'm sure that everyone else would do the same, even if they're going to see their significant other in a week.

Whatever.
I try to talk to people and everyone now dislikes me or has some kind of problem with me. My sister and best friend talk about how much they can't stand me, and I don't even know why, and when I ask they say nothing is wrong...clearly something is and clearly I do not know what it is. So rather than continue to complain about how awful I am and how awful my boyfriend is, why don't you tell me what the problem is so I can fix it. And I would never dare complain about either of their boyfriends...especially not while he was around, and it's nothing but embarassing when you do that to him. Because he does nothing but try and have you like him. Neither of us deserve to have people have attitudes with us and then not be told what is wrong in the first place. That's just stupid, if you have a problem tell me what it is so we can fix it, don't just tell me everything is fine and then continue to get mad at me. Clearly that means that you don't even care about any kind of relationship with me.

Seriously if you want nothing to do with me than that's how it will be, I feel like I am making an effort and now one else cares. So just clue me in for once, either get over yourselves and be my friends, or just continue to complain about what an annoying awful boring conceited person I am behind my back.

All I want is for everyone to get along. But I can't take people being mad at me and talking about how awful Andrew and I are. You don't even know him, and he has gone above and beyond and does everything you ask, so don't complain about him. And according to you all I have done nothing wrong, so I just want everything to be fine and for us all to be friends. But in order for that to happen you have to actually tell me what the problem is.

Your call.
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