On holding grudges...
I have been often accused of holding grudges a little too long. This accusation can very well be accepted rightly in my case. I do hold them for a long time.
I say why should I not hold them….
If you are wronged for some reason whatsoever, under whatsoever condition, why should not I hold them. If you are once wronged, you should remember what happen why and for what reason that happened and under what conditions and by whom. You tend to become wary If the same thing happens again. Once Bitten twice shy.
And it is not like I never help people despite holding grudges. Even I hold the grudges, I do try to help them, whenever the need arises, directly or indirectly. Holding grudges against people is against their nature, while helping them in their need is make an effort in trying change them.
I have always learned to take care of myself. And this one lesson I had to leanr the hard way in life. Do hold grudges against people, but do help people whenever possible. Coz it never actually goes away. Life always comes back a full circle. The way you treat the world, sooner or later, the world will treat you in same way.
I say why should I not hold them….
If you are wronged for some reason whatsoever, under whatsoever condition, why should not I hold them. If you are once wronged, you should remember what happen why and for what reason that happened and under what conditions and by whom. You tend to become wary If the same thing happens again. Once Bitten twice shy.
And it is not like I never help people despite holding grudges. Even I hold the grudges, I do try to help them, whenever the need arises, directly or indirectly. Holding grudges against people is against their nature, while helping them in their need is make an effort in trying change them.
I have always learned to take care of myself. And this one lesson I had to leanr the hard way in life. Do hold grudges against people, but do help people whenever possible. Coz it never actually goes away. Life always comes back a full circle. The way you treat the world, sooner or later, the world will treat you in same way.