No. 6 - She needs closeness to feel sexual; you need sex to feel close
This is the fundamental impenetrable puzzle of love. I have no idea what to do about this. But great husbands have this reality in mind at all times.
from:
http://www.menshealth.com/cda/article.do?site=MensHealth&channel=sex.relationships&category=couples&conitem=f63a99edbbbd201099edbbbd2010cfe793cd____ I love that. I forget it a lot, though.
Noah