Also, i want you to know that i'm not trying to be a bitch to you. Although, if i were you i'd be thinking "Who is this bitch!?!" I just think that it's really crappy that all these people that know him turn on him and bring up things that he's done in the past or doing now. I don't think it's fair to remind people of the things that they've done. He knows what he's done, or doing. He doesn't need to be reminded.
I personally think that Matt is funny, talented and a fun guy. But there are some guys that you just don't date. Matt may be one of those guys.
I'm getting too involved in this. Sorry for that. But maybe you'll think about some of the things that i've said as an outsider. Maybe it will give some people a fresh or different perspective. Like i said i'm not trying to be a bitch to you. I'm sure that your pain and anger towards Matt is valid with in your perception but maybe working things out for yourself is best rather then throwing what he's done in his face. If he hasn't changed by now, then it's more than likely that he's content with who he is. Not happy, content. Or, quite possibly lost.
Sometimes it's best to allow the person room to change and hope. It's hard changing who you are, especially with people always reminding you of the you that they know. I'm just saying.
He is. And not just trying, but actually correcting the things in his life that he doesn't like. But even if he wasn't, whoever said all that is right, its his business. You can only run your life, and if you don't like Matt or can't allow him to run his own life, then stay away from him and the people that do care about him and can let him for your own good, you won't ever feel better or get over it if you keep dwelling on it, and thats really no way to live your life. I sincerely hope that you can find your peace, for your sake and the sake of everyone involved. God bless.
easy for you to say... actually i do care about matt.. i try everyday to stop caring about matt.. hense all the hatred toward him because i would love to get on with my own life.. you could never even imagine how much i care about matt... or maybe it would be obvious by the fact that i cant stop ranting and raving about him even after all the crap he did to me.. if i didnt care about him, why would i bother thanks
I personally think that Matt is funny, talented and a fun guy. But there are some guys that you just don't date. Matt may be one of those guys.
I'm getting too involved in this. Sorry for that. But maybe you'll think about some of the things that i've said as an outsider. Maybe it will give some people a fresh or different perspective. Like i said i'm not trying to be a bitch to you. I'm sure that your pain and anger towards Matt is valid with in your perception but maybe working things out for yourself is best rather then throwing what he's done in his face. If he hasn't changed by now, then it's more than likely that he's content with who he is. Not happy, content. Or, quite possibly lost.
Sometimes it's best to allow the person room to change and hope. It's hard changing who you are, especially with people always reminding you of the you that they know. I'm just saying.
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actually i do care about matt.. i try everyday to stop caring about matt.. hense all the hatred toward him because i would love to get on with my own life.. you could never even imagine how much i care about matt... or maybe it would be obvious by the fact that i cant stop ranting and raving about him even after all the crap he did to me.. if i didnt care about him, why would i bother
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