How'd They Do It Back in the Day?
I don't know if my ovaries are starting to mold, I've watched one too many Sex and the City's, or maybe I just want some good intimate monkey sex, but I've really been in the mood to start dating again.
Cause I don't have enough going on with two podcasts, my rewrite class, 40 hours a week at the temple, and a job search...now apparently I want to add the stress and emotional work of another important person into my world.
The difficulties that presents aside, I'm not really sure how to go about it. I'm kinda done with the internet scene (at least for the time being). For my money it's a sure bet if I'm looking for a hook up, but when I'm in front of my computer, I'm trying to keep myself busy with other things rather than clicking through profile after profile to find a real connection. I realize of course if I want something I need to put the work in, but I'm just feeling there's got to be other ways.
There's the gay bars but that's 30 minutes out of my way making it hard to make a routine. There's one in Veince Beach, which is much closer, but a little seedy. I guess maybe there's social groups. But I don't know of any that are just kinda standard "single gay boy" as opposed to kink specific. Which is cool for when that conversation is gonna happen, but doesn't need to be an opener for me.
I dunno. Maybe it's just heading into the holidays. Oh well. Any thoughts?