Mar 01, 2004 14:25
When last we left our hapless hero, he was going on a date with Dave...
The *date* was kind of interesting because we ended up having one of those "talks". It turns out that Dave is in love with me and is seeing at least five other guys, but just for sex. Uh huh. you read that correctly. He is having sex with at least five other guys that he met before he met me. He acknowledged that he is a sex addict...not sure I really believe that he fits the criteria for being a sex addict, but that's what he tells me. Despite that, he wasn't too happy to hear about my valentine escapades at the glory hole.
You know, it does kind of change things for me. On one hand, if it was anonymous sex that would be one thing; but he is seeing the same guys repeatedly. Even if you call it 'fuck buddies' there is a relationship developing. On the other hand, we don't have any kind of agreement not to go out with other people. Funny thing is, I could agree to that with Dave *IF* he were free and available. He is not free nor available. He is with Alan and has no plans to change that relationship. Blah, blah, blah, moving on.
Lets review my love life, little as it is:
Dave: I love him, he loves me. He is currently having sex with five other guys and is in a 15 year open relationship.
Jonathan: we had some drama, we patched things up, now I am too busy to call him. I did send him an email letting him know I was thinking of him.
Richard: A stylist at the spa who reportedly likes me. I think he is cut; however, according to those who know him, Richard goes thru men quickly. Been there, done that!
James: james is looking for temporary housing while he auditions for he summer season. I may let him stay with me. We'll see. James was someone that I met up with last Sept. He kind of freaked on me; but later apologized for the way he treated. he is the one that blew me in front of my windows. he is really cute and sexy.
Aaarrrggggghhh, I am falling asleep writing this, so will close for now....