re-parenting
The night was still as She walked through the door to my room. "I see My little boy you did not clean up your room. Now you and I have discussed this and I told you there would be no more chances.." She reached out and took me by the ear and placed me in the corner. "Until I call for you ... Stay There !" With that She walked out of my room and down to the bathroom. Truly i had enough time to clean my room, i was being a brat. However, i did not expect Her to react this way.
i heard Her come back into my room and sit on the bed. "Alright," She said, " let's get this over with. Get across My lap NOW you naughty little brat. I am going to make sure you Never forget this lesson." i did as She ordered and before i could even think about it She tugged my pj's down leaving me bare from the waist down.
Now the above situation is a work of fiction. How many of us though would be honest and say "i need a Woman like that." raises my hand i know i do and crave it from time to time and as a matter of fact, right now is one of those times. There was a psychotherapist who wrote a book detailing what She called re-parenting therapy. Her entire premise was that there are those in society who need strict yet loving reparenting. Now i did not have the greatest of times as a child growing up. However i don't consider myself abnormal for needing a strict, loving authorative Female in my life who can spank and discipline for any reason She deems appropriate. i don't consider myself abnormal for needing a strict, loving and authorative Female who can also play and have fun. i don't even consider it abnormal to want to be reparented in this fashion. What i do find abnormal is that there is a disturbing lack of caring people willing to do this.
Now i know it is not something that one finds in her or his local newspaper in the "Services Offered" pages an ad for reparenting by a strict yet nurturing, playful and loving Woman. i'd love to find it there but sadly have not ... and yes i have looked. Consider this however, you find this woman and She is strict and loving and nurturing. One of the rules is that you do agree to give up all control of your life as long as you are under Her care, and agree to live under Her authority. Would you do it ? That is the tough aspect ... actually agreeing to give that control to another.
i know that there are those out there who read blogs that are Big Sisters, or Aunts or Mommies in this kind of arrangement. Can You speak to this ? What do You find rewarding and/or troubling about this ? Now i am inpatient and scared but most of all frustrated. i will write more on this later