"The only thing you have in common with your failed relationships is you."
I'm realizing it's time to be more proactive in my own life. I'm always dishing out the advice and being the super friend. It's time to show myself a little love too!
I had heard that quote before and it never impacted me as it did so suddenly, like the dawn of light. I allow losers to stay in my life. I mean, I kinda knew it before... ok, I totally knew it all along (DENIAL!!!!!) but I am SO one of those girls that I want to hit. "He'll come around one day." PLEASE! If I could count on my one hand the people that have ever "come around"...
People don't change. Wake up, realize it, and accept it. Habits MAY change, if the person themselves is the one to initiate the process, but the people stay the same.
Here I am, letting boy after boy drag me through the mud, leave me for dirt, and then come back again when they're tired of their new toys. I always feel like I'm second rate. So why is that? It's me- I am attracted to these people I hope to help, er 'the bad boys", because I see a project and it's exciting. And because I'm bad myself and I see low expectations.
It's sooooo the wrong way of life. And sooooooo the wrong way to think.
UGH>
I had heard that quote before and it never impacted me as it did so suddenly, like the dawn of light. I allow losers to stay in my life. I mean, I kinda knew it before... ok, I totally knew it all along (DENIAL!!!!!) but I am SO one of those girls that I want to hit. "He'll come around one day." PLEASE! If I could count on my one hand the people that have ever "come around"...
People don't change. Wake up, realize it, and accept it. Habits MAY change, if the person themselves is the one to initiate the process, but the people stay the same.
Here I am, letting boy after boy drag me through the mud, leave me for dirt, and then come back again when they're tired of their new toys. I always feel like I'm second rate. So why is that? It's me- I am attracted to these people I hope to help, er 'the bad boys", because I see a project and it's exciting. And because I'm bad myself and I see low expectations.
It's sooooo the wrong way of life. And sooooooo the wrong way to think.
UGH>